A question about gls and boys relation start !!

Hi..

I think there are lots of good people including gls over here.

So want to ask a question. I think this is the best place to ask it.


All kno that there is a good role of opp. sex attraction in boys and gls relation. But I have seen at few books and places that when you want to develop  a relationship with a girl then make sure you touch the gl minimum ie whe you are trying to make relation with gl.

But what I found that gls get opened easily when you use your touch system ie. touch them while you are with her , this way they get more frank to you and thus creating a easy way for a good affair rather flirt !!


Ofcourse I am not talking about serious relationship . at least not for me, donno about gls.


I used to belive that follow old rules got from the experience of lots of peoples who came in world before us, and I found them very useful but the above one about touching or not is making me confused as earlier I also thought that it is right to not to touch in the begining but on touching i found it better .

So especially gls wht you think ?

and boys wht are your experience !!!

and plz don't make it gls-boys battlefiled rather have a intelligent talk of this topic ..

Thank you!!

OLD YOINDIA MEMBER IS BACK

well seems to me that many are not interested to even give look to this topic !! very sad ..

Sanju i think Anay is talking about boy-gl relation in the sense of bf-gf type. So my experience !! umm... Well what I believe is just be good .. And about your question to start with touch or not to touch .. I really like to hear from Girls over here !!

bhaiyo.n and unki pyari behno y dont v discuss this

as far as my experience with gals... in first few dates / hang outs i stayed away .. but then when u sit together u get to touch them n yes it sure helps each other to open up...

 in one of the book on Kinesics (Body Laguange) i read that when u try to touch someone while talking its like invading there field. So may be once u enter thier restricted field in start they are uneasy.. but then start to relax n open up...

Try this thing with anyone while u r in some restrau meeting for fisrt time.. the person will surely place the forks/spoon/ glass of water in such a manner that indicating this is my field n the fork/spoon/glass is my boundary wall but if u invade it after a lil bit of hesitation the person gives in... so yes a lil bit of touching does help to improve your relation...