apne to apne hote hain !!!!!

kabhi kabhi aisa lagta hai ki---

duniya me sirf apne hi apne hote hain!!!
jo humare riste me hon ya jo blood related hon!!!

kisi bhi gair ko apna maan kar dil se apnapan aur pyar chahen laakh de den hum---
aur fir yahi bhul jaen ki wo to kabhi gair tha--
issi baat par kabhi agr use daant dia jaye kisi bat par ya gussa hua jae uss shaks par to usse der nhi lgti ye kehte hue ki--

MAI TO APNA NHI NA ISSLIE AAPNE AISA KAHA !!!!

uss waqt dil pr kya bitti hai wo to smjhta nhi----
bas keh kr muh mod leta h--

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dekhen Humare Yoindia Shayariadab ke Emotional members ka iss bare me kya feel hai??

kya Sarfire ne kuch galat feel kia ya sirf apni Sarfiriyat ko aapke samne share kia

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i need atleast 2 replies must !!!

aapka topic accha hai....mera ye experience hai aise mammlo pe ki jo log chahe blood relation mei hn ya adopt relation mei agar unhe zaroorat se jyada logo ka pyar milta hai to unko iski galat addat pad jati hai aur jyada meetha mei keede padd jate hai waise hi danto ya salah do sab buralagta hai............
par dusri side jinko jyada value nahi milti chahe wo kaisa bhi relation ho aap unko dante ya samjhaye aapko aksar sunne ko milega ki aapne mujhe danta ya samjhaya aisa laga ki koi mera apna hai...sab kuch action ke output or aur sitution pe depend karta hai.

Aksar ye sawaal tab aate hai, jab koi kisi baat ya vyakti ko lekar bahut sanjeeda hota hai.. Bahut accha sawaal hai, par javaab ko generalize nahi kiya ja sakta. Jindgee formulae par nahee chaltee.
Apne apne hote hai..u mean blood relation…..shayad YES aur NO dono..aap kis haalat me hai aap behtar samajh sakte hain. Mera manna hai ki rishte blood relations se govern nahee hote. Aisa hota to har ghar me bepanaah pyaar dekhne ko milta.. aap khud jhaank kar dekhe.
Koi gair..yaani jisse blood relation nahee.- -   Gair bhee pal bhar me apne ho jaate hai, Bas jaroorat hai pyar kee, viswaas kee, intjaar kee
Jaha tak gusse aur daant ka sawaal hai, ye do dilo ke beech ke connection pe depend karta hai..jab bhee kisi kism kee dooree hoti hai,, ya koi adjustment tab aksar ye sawaal uth khada hota hai..kyoki beech me EGO aa jaata hai. Insaan sab kuch bhool sakta hai par khud ka astitva uske liye hamesha aham hota hai..
Note: it’s just my personal opinion, people may agree or disagree to it but I wouldn’t like to indulge in any further discussion..Please.

hmm