father / Pita / abba / daddy

kuch alag se hote hain pita....humesha apne bachchon ke liye ek mazboot chat kee tarah se....har mausam se suraksha ka pakka wada hote hain pita...duniya kee har khushi apne bachchon ki jholi me daal dene ki khwahish rakhne wale.......maa ki mamta bhale hi duniya me bahoot mashhoor hai...lekin apne bachchon kee ankh me aansu dekh-kar..aankhen inki bhi chalak hi jaati hain..lekin badi safai se use chupa lete hain pita.....
ek kathorta ka sa mardana mukhouta odhe hote hain ye pita...lekin ander se bilkul narm.....
inka bhi man hota hai seene se chipka kar apne bachche ko dher sa pyar den....par kai baar chupa lete hain pita...aur fir sote hue bachche ko uske maasoom chehre ko chum lete hain pita..lekin koi dekh le to fir had-bada se jaate hain jaise koi chori karta hua pakada gaya ho.
office se jab sham ko ghar aate hain na jaane office ki kitani hi pereshaniyon ko liye...lekin ehsas nahi hone dete aur odh lete hain khush hone ka labada..
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Wow................soooooooooooooooooo cuteeeeeeee Bhai.......


   Gosh Ajj Bhi Mein Ek Saal Ki Hothi,
     Tho Abbu Ki Goodh Mein Khail Thi,

    Gosh Woh Lamhe Pir Se Wapas Ahh Jayai,
      Jab Abbu Ki Ungli Pakar Kai Maine Chalna Seekha,

     Gosh Woh Pal Pir Se Wapas Ahh Jathai,
       Jab Abbu Nai Mujko Pehli Baar Cycle Chalana Sikhaya,

      Gosh Main Ithni Bhari Na Huyi Hothi,
        Tho Ajj Bhi Mein Abbu Ki Goodh Mein Khail Sakthi Thi.....

Pita pray sunder nahi hote……inka chehra inke seene aur peeth kit ulna me sanwala hota jata hai..inke unchahe pet bhi badh jaata hai..roz gym jaane ka nishchay karke bhi bamushkil do-chaar baar jaakar is bare me sochna hi chod dete hain…inke sir ke baal bahoot jaldi safed hone aur jhadne lagte hain….bahoot jaldi inke daadhi me bhi safedi jhankne lagti hai…….pita shuru shuru me har saptah baal rangte hain aur roz subah daadhi banate hain par ye sab unse jyada dino tak nahi nibhta aur tab do range baalon aur khichdi dadhi me ye aur bhi asunder dikhai dete hain.
Iske bawzood agar ye kisi din sheeshe ke samne ausat se jyada samay tak khade rah jaate hain to poora pariwar inhen khoji nigahon se ghoorane lagta hai……..
Beta bada hokar jab pahli baar naukari karne doosre shahar jaa raha hota hai tab upar se khoob khush, nishchint aur samany dikhai den eke bawzood pita bheetar hi bheetar bahoot udaas ho jaate hain ye bete ko thik se hidayat bhi nahi de paate hain…..apne swar ko sanyat rakhne ki koshish me ye vidai ke waqt bhi lagbhag chup bane rahte hain……..is chuppi ke karan pure pariwar me aksar nishthur aur aupcharik maan liye jaate hain
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par pita kisi din bhavoktavash bina kisi soochna ke akele hi bete ke shahar pahunch jaate hain…barson baad bete ko seene se lagakar nidhal ho jaate hain…..
Daiybities ke bawzood bet eke dwara lai gai ya banai gai chay ko bina kisi bhay ke anand se chuskiyan lekar lete hue peete hain….lekin us din ye bete ko naukari se aadhi ya poori chutti nahi lene dete hain.
Bete ke jaane ke baad ve uska avyavasthit karma thik karne ka anand lena chahte hain par kapdon ke peeche rakha whisky ka adda aur cigarette ka packet dekhane ke baad ve safai karne ka apna irada chod dete hain …………sham ko bet eke lautane par ve un cheeson ka zikra taq nahi karte…bet eke sath kuch der baatchit karne ke baad inhen karne ke liye baaten taq nahi sujhati aur tab bet eke saath khane ka anand lene ke baad bahoot zaroori meeting ki baat kahkar usi raat rawana ho jaate hain …..han rawangi ke waqt bet eke haathon me kuch bade note dabane ka such ye avashya lete hain …

Though written in a very sentimental tone, I dont agree with following sentences:


Zyadatar dekha gaya hai bachche Maa se zayaada attached hote hain...lekin ye bhi sach hai ki zyadatar bete maa se aur betiyaan baap se attached hoti hain.....


Auron ka to nahin maaloom, maine apne ghar main maa-baap dono ko barabar ke level pe dekha hai...jahan koi bhi faisla dono ki aapsi salah mashware se hota tha/hai.....


Again, it never happened to us !!


Aapki ye post bohot sentimental hai..lekin bohot saari cheezain padh ke aisa laga ki jaise "pita" ko ek "bechara" ke roop main yahan laaya gaya.....I appreciate but dont agree with many things.....Sorry If I have hurt anyone with my views...par "Pita" ko itni bechaari si haalat main dekh na saki, isiliye likh diya !!

talat ji,
aapne padha saraha aur sochne ke baad apne vichar rakhe...achcha laga....
bilkul sahi hai ye baat ki padhte padhte lagta hai ki pita ek bechare kee tarah se hai....lekin kisi had taq ye sach bhi hai....ek pita ko hamesha mazbooti ka labada odhe rakhna padta hai....kai baar ye khul-kar hans to lete hain par ro nahi paate.......shayad yahi karan hai bachche hamesha pita ko duniya ka sabse takatvar insan samjhte hain
yahan 

BEKARAR JI,

Ajj subah atte he apki yah thread pardi!! likhne ki icha hote hue bhi nahi likha..wo waqat shayad alag tha jab Ma ek mamta ki murat hoti thi aor father ek taktwar insaan jis ki her kahin baat,maani jaani jaroori hai!!

Ajj waqat badal raha hai.. Bache khud dekhte hai, samjhate hai, mehsoos karte hai aor apki ek soch banate hai ki kon kaya hai!!

dil main bahoot kuch hai..is per likhne ko.. magar shayad ajj jayada nahi likh sakugi is vishay per..

Jaise ki Celmira ne kaha ki wo apki kuch baato se sehmat nahi hai... waise he apki posts padte waqat lag raha tha ki yaha father ko takwar batate hue bhi kitna ander se kamjor , bhawook aor bichara batlaya ja raha hai!!

MAine jahan father ko follad ki tarah bahoot sakhat dil dekha hai wahin kisi aor father ko phoot phoot kar sari dunia ke samne rota bhi dekha hai... yah nature hai aor depend karta hai ki kis father ki kis tarah ki nature hai.
issi tarah maine families dekhi hai jahan father apni wife ko koi ahmiyat nahi deta... choti se choti baat per jaleel karta hai, marta hai.... aor aise families bhi dekhin hai jahan father aor uski wife ki bahoot hi achi understanding hai..
again insaan ki nature per depend karta hai!!