help required urgently please

boss!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

iss problem ka ilaaj toh aap ko khud hee talaashna hai. yahaan mokhtalif loag apnee raay de.N gey toh aap aur confuse ho jaao gey. aap ko apne ghar walo.N se hee iss baare me>n discuss karna chaahiye aur close relative me.N jo sahee taur per aap ka bhhalaa chahte ho.N.ise public issue nahin banaae.N . mujhe aisa lagta hai aap popularity gain karne ke liye shaayad yahaan per aisee baat likh rahe ho just a hoax, sorry to say ,in my opinion, this is not a correct platform for you to discuss very very intense personal problem publically.

take care

 

हर्षिता जी.....

प्यार नाम है देने का और बदले में कुछ भी न चाहने का.....ये उस लड़के की बदकिस्मती है कि उसने आपके प्यार को नहीं समझा....कोई बात नहीं....ज़िन्दगी यूँ ही नहीं रुक जाती, इसका नाम तो रवानी है....इसलिये पुरानी बातों को भूलकर आगे बढिये....बहुत सी ज़िन्दगी अभी बाकी है और हाँ एक बात का ख्याल रखियेगा....

"उसको अपना बनाइये जो आप से बेइंतेहा मोहब्बत करता हो
न कि उसके बनिये जिसको आप बेइंतेहा मोहब्बत करते हैं".....

I agree with Sheba

Harshitaa Jee I hope I can give you a good advice, I don't know what is a good age to start advising but I am 81 years of age. You are in 11th grade, nearly you are 17 years of age. So you are definitely not a child and you can make your own decisions. Frankly you say you fell in love with a guy. You start searching your heart, ask yourself was it love or was it a infatuation only, also remember that love is a 2 way's street. Secondly you have to understand it that you have to first win someone friendship before falling in love. Here is something important, in order to win friendship of a guy you should never become intimate with him. If he tries for that forget him, never ever go near him. Lastly as someone remarked rightly, just now concentrate on your studies.

Sincerely