Love or Infatuation..

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Nice Nishita !!

Par agar dono hi cheez ek baar mai lage toh  :?

Somewhere between the *procrastination* and the homework.. and the incessant forwards and the friendships and the calls to each other complaining about CrUsHeS and BF/GF!! Somewhere between the phone calls to old friends and the "I miss you's", the "I love you's" and the "What are we doing tonight's?" And somewhere between all of the changing and growing...
somewhere between the classes and the skipping classes...and the StUdYiNg for teStS...And the PRETENDING to "StUdY" for TeStS... And the downright NOT StUdYiNg for TeStS...
I forgot--I forgot what ScHooL was all about.

Somewhere between all the appointments, starbucks coffee,and Mc Donald's... paying bills and then not paying bills...
Making plans then breaking plans... Appearing, Disappearing, then reappearing... I forgot--I forgot what it was like to cry.
I forgot that pretending to be happy doesn't make you happy... And that pretending to be SmArT doesn't make you smart .. I forgot that you can't just forget the past in fear of the FUTURE... I forgot that you can't control falling in LoVe..
And that you can't make yourself fall in *LoVe* .... I learned that I can LOVE... I learned that it's okay to MEsS UP....
And it's okay to ask for HELP!!!.. And it's okay to feel like crap... I learned it's okay to cOmPLaiN and wHINe to all your friends for a whole day........
I learned that sometimes the things you want most you just can't have and the things that you look for are right in front of you.
I learned that the greatest thing about HiGh ScHOoL and CoLLeGe and the working world it isn't about the parties or theDRiNKiNG
It's the *FrIeNdShIpS*, which means taking chances.I learned that sometimes the things we want to forget are the things which we most  need to talk about...
I learned that TIME and LOVE can heal all things...
I learned that just when you think it can't get worse - it does! ...but with the love and support of friends - you survive...
I've learned that when you start feeling BaD about L O S I N G touch and about those that you've lost!
They too, are feeling the same way....
I learned that letters from friends are the most important things. And that sending cards to your friends makes you feel better! But, basically, I just learned that my friends........ Both old and new..... are the most important people to me in the world AND.......without them, I wouldn't be who I am today.....

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What is love? What is infatuation? Are they not both the same? No, love and infatuation are totally different feelings.

Love...
Love is friendship that has caught fire. It takes root and grows, one day at a time.
For love, the physical attraction is only one aspect of the feelings you share.
Love teaches you to be patient and to plan your future with confidence.
Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfection.
Love is when both partners are allowed to be themselves and feel at ease with the other.
Love involves honesty, respect and trust in each other.
Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened.
Love gives you strength and grows beyond you.
Love is mutual giving and receiving.
Love means a feeling of commitment to the other.
Love is when you are warmed by their presence, even when they are miles away from you.
Love has a balanced interest in other areas of life besides the relationship.
Love means both people can handle highs and lows in the relationship.
Love is when you both enjoy your time together.


Infatuation...
Infatuation is an instant desire which fades away with time.
Infatuation has an element of physical attraction. Whenever you are together, you hope it will end in intimacy.
Infatuation lacks confidence about yourself and your partner.
Infatuation is the feeling of getting married right away due to the fear of losing the partner.
Infatuation brings the feelings of jealousy and distrust.
Infatuation is having an idealized image of each other with wonderful pictures replaying in head.
Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity with a high level of losing the other.
Infatuation makes you impatient of the imperfection of the other.
Infatuation may bring violence into the relationship.
Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret.
Infatuation stimulates and you are thrilled but not really happy.
Infatuation makes you miserable when they are physically absent