Why we create multiple ids,why we misunderstand things.share yr views:Chit

@kaash

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frnds,
i am just sharing my views,and want to have yr views regarding it.

like we know, everyone has different perceptions,and everyone
understand anything by his or her own perception,BUT what is important
is that when we discuss on anything we get different views from different
ppl and then the solution or the key points come will be rather more important
and useful for everyone.
so the only request is that give yr personal opinions but dn take it personally.
bcoz aise hum log ache se apne vichaar nahi likh payenge.

so the first one is

about multiple ids

i see different faces in after every two or three months.
kuch unme se rah jate hain jo aage sustain karte hain,but kafi apni id change kar lete hain ye to hum sabhi jaante hain ki yo chhod ke jane valon ki % bahut kum hoti hai.
i want to request that pls try to avoid this.

jis id ke against hum likhte hain hamari pehchaan usi se sab karte hain.
aur jab sab hume padhne lagte hain to vo rachnaon ka wait bhi karte hain.
aur aise chale jane se ya id badalne se hum apne un readers,frnds sabhi
ko apni rachnayon se mahroom rakhte hain.

i can also understand some times there might be some other reasons for that.

many a times it happens because of the non conversation or missunderstandings with
the fellow members.aksar bina baat ke bhi koi kisi ki baat se hurt ho sakta hai
aur chala jata hai.

and the second one is why we misunderstand things.

i think everyone is here for fun,excitement reading n writing the poems.
sometimes precisely for now members when they dn get enough good comments
as per them they start taking things wrong.we are seeing her post notice ki
jati hai,par kabhi kabhi replies man mutabik nahi aane se bhi aisa ho sakta hai.
well afterall we are frnds so pls dn misunderstand each other.koi bhi baat hume achi na lage to use batakar hi hal ho pata hai,u can pm the monitor but i think its better to
pm the same person aur unse misunderstanding door kar len because many a times
we find that he or she has not done it intentionally.

pls share yr thoughts.
thanks

God bless


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brokenbyluv

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Re: Why we create multiple ids,why we misunderstand things.share yr views

«Reply #1 on: January 22, 2010, 01:02:05 PM »

Kaash ji main apse sehmat hu..mujhe badi khushi hui ki apne ye thread khola specially jab ki yoindia pe itni negativity dekhne ko mil rahi hai members k beech mein..hum yahan kyun aur kisse ladte hai aaj tak humne ek dusre ko dekha nhi sirrf naam k binaah pe aap kaise kisi ko judge kar sakte ho..yahan har member apni lafzo ki kimat pe hi jana jata hai aur ek shayar k liye sabse pehli cheez hi lafzz hoti hai jo uski pehchaan uski jaan hoti hai aur hum unhi lafzo ka galat istemaal karke apne hi parivar k logo ko takleef pahuchate hai..main sabse puchti hu kyun hum yahan ek ache parivaar ki tarah nhi reh sakte kyun har baat ko galat nazriye se dekhna zaruri hota hai..yahan hazaro SHAYAR/SHAYARA hai aur ye sab jante hai ki hamare lafz hi hamari pehchaan hai aur kripya karke kisi ko yahan hurt na kare aur yahan se jane ya naam badlke aane ko majbur naa kare..acha likhe naye mebers ki hausla afzayi kare sab ko ek nigah se dekhe hamari asal zindgi mein jab hum khud ko sanwarna nhi bhulte tou yahan yo pe kyun apne alfazo ko sanwarna bhool jate hai..MAAF KIJIYEGA KUCH GALAT KAHA HO TOU..bahut dino se yo pe ho rahi chizo ko dekhke mujhe bahut bura lag raha tha isliye jo dil mein tha keh diya..

ANYONE PLZZ DONT TAKE IT PERSONALLY..

thnx..


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brokenbyluv

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Re: Why we create multiple ids,why we misunderstand things.share yr views

«Reply #2 on: January 22, 2010, 01:21:10 PM »

ji sahi kaha kaash ji main bilkul sehamt hu apki baat se..yahan har koi baat shuru kar deta hai per khtm nhi karta aur baat hamesha badhti hai aur phir ant mein kisi na kisi ka dil hi dukhta hai...main yahi chahungi ki zyada se zyada yoindian yahan apne comments de aur jo bhi baat hai vo kahe..


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Rishi Agarwal

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Re: Why we create multiple ids,why we misunderstand things.share yr views

«Reply #3 on: January 22, 2010, 01:38:24 PM »

Read This

http://www.yoindia.com/shayariadab/sha-poetry-of-pain/ab-to-laut-ke-aajao-janrishi-t53244.0.html

And Aap Sab Apna Opinion De
Aur Hum Chahte Hai Ki Sacche Dil Se Insaf
De Kisi Ko PM Karne Se Bhi Kuch Nahi Hota
Hai Aur Kaash Ji hum Aapke Bahut Abhari Hai
Ki Aapne Ye Thread Open Ki I Wait Reply
Fir Banda New Id Open Kar Aaye To Kyu Na Aaye


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brokenbyluv

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Re: Why we create multiple ids,why we misunderstand things.share yr views

«Reply #4 on: January 22, 2010, 01:44:16 PM »

kaash ji maine jo kehna tha keh diya hai ji aur apne sehmati bhi de di hai..bus ab ye janna hai ki aur sab kya kehte hai...

hoping for postivie response in this thread..

thnx...


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KOYAL46

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Re: Why we create multiple ids,why we misunderstand things.share yr views

«Reply #5 on: January 22, 2010, 01:54:34 PM »

Khayaal achha hai aap dono ka....most well come hai ji....

Kuchh log kewal masti karne ko yahaan aa jaate hain...
Unhain shero-shayri mai koi dilchaspee nahi hoti...
Wahi log ulte-seedhe comments karke likhne wale ko upset kar dete hain.....Non-cooperation & no-reply on those comments he uska ek solution ho sakta hai....

Rahi baat achhe kalaam bhi Daad nahi paate hain....Uske kai reasons ho sakte hain.....
Log limited time k liye aate hain aur jin rachnayon par nazar padti hai comments karte hain...tou kuchh anpadhi reh jaati hain..

Kai baar tou 2-4 mahino k baad bhi comments aate hain..aur 2/3 years k baad bhi appriciate hote hain....thats luck..by chance.

Sab agar SHALINTA SE EK DUSERE K SAMMAAN KA KHAYAAL RAKHE TOU
SHAYAD KOI PROBLEM NAHI HOGI....
Jab log respect bhul jaate hain tab koi hurt hota hai....
Kai baar tou hamme patta he nahi hota ki Shayar/shayra kitna senior hai kya umra hai...kya position hai...adi adi...
Web pe sab ko sammaan se he sambodhit karna chahiye eysa mai sochti hu....
Multipal id's ka tuk tou meri samajh se bahaar hai...
Koi bhee apni kamaayee huyee khyati ko chhod kyu naya id lega..
Avtaar jaroor log badalte hain....
Haan jo mastikhor hain wo badnaam hone par nayee id lekar wapas aate honge shayad.....


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Rishi Agarwal

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Re: Why we create multiple ids,why we misunderstand things.share yr views

«Reply #6 on: January 22, 2010, 01:56:59 PM »

Kaash Ji Mein Insaf Manga Hai Ye Gyan Ki Bat Hume Bhi Pta Hai Mein Bhi Kisi Ki Bat Ko Dil Se Nahi Leta Hu Aur Na Kabhi Naraz Hota Hu Per Her Bar Aisa Kyu Aapne Ya To Uss Thread Ko Dhang Se Nahi Padha Kyuki Usme Saf Saf Jhalak Raha Hai Ki Kaun Galat Hai Kaun Sahi Hai Meri yaha Pe Dusre Nam Se Bhi Id Hai Aur Meine Wha Pe JanBhujkar Kisi Ke Likhe Ko Yaha Pe Dala Per Kisi Bhi Monitor Ne Usse Sharing Nahi Bola JabkI wo meine Yaha Pe Hi Kisi ke Likhe Ko Send Kiya Agar Aap Apni Jati Dhushmani yaha Pe Thread Pe Nikal Rahe Hai Aur Phir Jan Bhujkar Hume Gunahgar Tahraya Jata Hai To Phir Wo person New Name SE Kyu Nahi Aana Chahega Kaash Ji Aapne Ye Thread Open To Kar Di Per Aapne Sahi Faisla Nahi Diya Insaaf Ki Kursi Pe Beitho To Faisla Bhi Sahi Dena Shikhiye Kitabi Gyan Koi Bhi Padh Skta Hai

Meri Kisi Bhi Bat Ka Bura Na Mane Kyuki Mera Likhane Ka YE wajood Nahi Hai Ki Aapko Tesh Pahuche Bus Itni Iltza Hai Humari Is bat ko Dil Pe Na Lena

Kya Lekar Aaye The Hum Aur Kya Lekar Jayenge
Aaye The Khali Hath AUr Khali Hath Laut Jayenge
Kuch Sapne Bune Humne Kuch Pure Kar Jayenge
Kisi Ki Aankho Mein Aansoo To Kisi Ki Pass Yadein Chor Jayenge
Do Din Ki Hai zindagani Khushi Se Jeelo yaro
Aaj To Hum Sath Sath Hai Kal Pata Nahi Kaha Chale Jayenge


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Rishi Agarwal

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Re: Why we create multiple ids,why we misunderstand things.share yr views

«Reply #7 on: January 22, 2010, 01:59:43 PM »

Quote from: KOYAL46 on January 22, 2010, 01:54:34 PM

Multipal id's ka tuk tou meri samajh se bahaar hai...
Koi bhee apni kamaayee huyee khyati ko chhod kyu naya id lega..
Avtaar jaroor log badalte hain....
Haan jo mastikhor hain wo badnaam hone par nayee id lekar wapas aate honge shayad.....

Koyal Ji Aap Humse Acchi Likhti Hai Per Yaha PE Ye Sab Likhkar Kya Aapko Ye Sab Shobha De Raha Hai Koi Janbhujkar Yaha PE New Id Create Nahi Karta Waqt Aur Halat Usse Ye Sab Kara Dete Hai Kai Bar Password BhuL Jane Ki Wajah Se To Kai Bar Insaaf Pane Ke Liye Meine Jo Upar Likha Aap Uspe Gaur Farmayenge Aasha Karta Hu Ki Aap Meri Is Bat Ka Bura Nahi Manenge

Rishi


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Rishi Agarwal

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Re: Why we create multiple ids,why we misunderstand things.share yr views

«Reply #8 on: January 22, 2010, 02:46:56 PM »

Quote from: @kaash on January 22, 2010, 02:32:17 PM

Dear Rishi thanks u share yr emotions
aur apnapan jatane k lie bhi shukriya aur
main kisi judge ya insaaf ki kursi par nahi baitha lolz!

this thrd like every thrd is for everyone so that we can discuss n tell our views,etc.ye tabhi mumkin hai jab kahne k saath sunna bhi pasand karen.
aapki baat mujhe abhi pata chali,i read that and give my views.that's it n sent Pm another PM to you.
i can understand yr point of view,it seems there are misunderstandings dats wat u write in yr pm also dat many of thrd are being locked.but dear isme kisi ka koi prsnl fayda to kuch nahi hota na.ho sake to isko zyada dil pe na len.

and thanks for yr views regarding multiple ids dear.

Kaash Bhai Phir Is Id Ko Open Karne Ka Kya Fayda Fir Aapne Galat Kiya Jab Aap Koi Kam Karne Chale HO To Aap Inti Himmat HOni chahiye Ki Aap Usse Safalta Purwak Karke hi Laute But Aapne Ne Pahle Hi Padaw Pe Mujhe Piche Hatane Ko Bol Diya Mein Dil Pe Nahi yaha Pe Aane Wale Her User Ke Hidayat Ke Liye Hi Bol Rahe Hai Agar Hum Sab Ek Family Ki Tarah Rahe To Kabhi Koi Jhagda Nahi HO Agar Dekhi Jaye To Wo Hi Bat Hai Bro Agar Hindu Ke Dil Mein Musalman Bhaiyo Ke Liye Pyar Ho Aur Her Musalman Bhaiyo Ke Dil MEin Hindu Ke Liye Pyar To Phir Ye Khun Kharaba Band Ho Jayega Per Koi Aage Badhna HI Nahi CHahta Sab Isliye Piche Hat Jate Hai Ki Koi Pahle Aage Aaye Per Is Soch Ke Karan Hi Aaye Din Jhagade Hote Hai Agar yahi bat yaha pe kahu To Yaha Pe Sab Ek Dusre se Anjan Hai Sirf Uske Nam Ke Siway To Yaha PE Sirf Hum Sabhi Ko Ek Dusre Ke Naam Se Jante Hai Aur Aaj Itne Bade Bade Shayar Hai Sirf Hum Unke Nam Se Waqif Hai Na Ki Unke Chehre Se
Kaash JI Many Thread Lock Hai Unse Mujhe Matlab Nahi Hai Mujhe Matlab Hai To Insaaf Se Agar Aapko Monitor Banaya Jata Hai To Aap Apni Personaly Dushmani Ko Bhulkar Her Kam Nek Dil Se Karo per yha Pe YE Sub Nahi Hota Hai Her Koi Ek Dusre Se Kisi Na Kis bat Se Khafa Hai Kaash Bro Yaha Pe Na Jane Kitne New User Enter Hote Hai Agar Hum Purane User Unka Welcome Kare Unhe Her Sahi Disha Yaha Pe Dikhaye To Yaha Pe Sabko Apnapan Lagega Per ye sab Kabhi HO Nahi Skata Bus Mujhe Yahi Dekhana Tha Ki Ye Thread Open Huvi Hai To Kya Yaha Pe Sab Active Hai Ya Nahi I Think My Answer No
yaha Pe Game Ka Option Hai Per Ye Site To Shayari Ki hai Na To yaha Pe Agar Game Khelne Ki Bajaye Hum Shayari PE Jayda Dhyan De To Kisi Ko Behtar Likhane Mein Sahi Disha Milegi
Mera Bus yahi Kahna Hai Enjoy Karne Ke Liye Hazaro Sites Hai Ek Akeli SIte Ye TO Nahi Na

Sory Agar Kisi Ko Mere Karan Dukh Huva HO To

Rishi


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brokenbyluv

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Re: Why we create multiple ids,why we misunderstand things.share yr views

«Reply #9 on: January 22, 2010, 02:58:30 PM »

Quote from: KOYAL46 on January 22, 2010, 01:54:34 PM

koyal i also agree with u..sab kismat ki baat hai merre sath bhi kayi baar aesa hua hai merre kaafi achee dosto ne bhi kayi baar merri postings padhi tak nhi per maine kabhi kisi se koi shikwa nhi kiya..kyunki yahan apne alfaaz bayan karti hu der se hi sahi uske fal zarur saamne aata hai...wajah chahe jo bhi rahe dhiraj aur dherya se sab kuch haasil hota hai...


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Rishi Agarwal

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Re: Why we create multiple ids,why we misunderstand things.share yr views

«Reply #10 on: January 22, 2010, 03:30:22 PM »

Quote from: @kaash on January 22, 2010, 03:12:47 PM

Rishi dear u know what i like such things but i was not getting
yr intentions.aur sites ki tarah yahan par bhi azaadi hai ye maine ab tak dekhi hai dear,infact zyada freedom bhi hai yahan.
believe it.

whatever u want write,coz abhi tak ki baaten aap ki theek lagi.

dear pls try that yahan itni post ki jati hain
maine khud hi kitni baar aapki post pe reply kia
i think none bcoz main kuch samay ke lie aata hun aur chala jata hun,to jo naye members dheere dheere purane ho jate hain
n seem to be genuine unki post ko aur creation ko seriously
padhte hain,coz ek to vo mehnat se likhte doosre they are serious about their writing.

u urself think just for example if someone writes a poem of say 16 lines and the other day he is writing two lines poem and start submitting the thread.
and again after a week the same person is coming with a new id.

mere ye sab kahne ka likhne ka ya is thrd ka maqsad sirf apni baat pahunchana nahi hai.coz agar aisa hota to main 1st quote pe hi likh deta.
maine jo likha hai just read it again it is for to finish any misunderstanding not to get involved in a complex situation.

i have seen many of yr posts are good also,but dear everyone needs time only here but everywhere to get faith.
u r hurt by that statement in which u r being told to follow the rules,and u have felt it too much that u can be out or something like that.
dn take it too much dear,yahan aisa nahi hota,i regret.

Kaash JI Yaha Kya Hota Hai Aap Is Bat Se Bekhabar Hai Aap Yaha Pe Mujhse Purane hai Per Jitne Time Online Mein Rha Hu Aap Nahi Sir Mein EK Businessmen hu aur mere pass time nahi hota per mein yaha pe phir time nikalta hu khana khane tak ki fursat nahi hoti hai humare pass mera Garment Import and export ka business hai Dusri Jagah Chinies Mobile Ke Whollseller ki Phir Bhi Mein Any Time online Rahta Hu Kyuki Mujhe Shayari Padhane Ka Aur Likhne Ka Bahut Jayda HI Janoon Hai Meine Bahut Kuch Dekha Hai Apni is choti c life mein Aaj Jis Mukaam Pe Mein Hu Kisi ne Sath Na Diya Na Gharwalo ne Na Yaro ne Na Rishtedaro ne Phir Bhi Himmat Na Harr Aage Badhane Ka Hausla Rakha......
Ek Janoon Hota Hai Jo Her Kisi Mein Nahi Hota Agar Dekha Jaye To Upar Koyal Ji Ne Aur Geet Ji Ne Jo Bat Likhi Mein Unki Is Bat se Sahmat Nahi hu Agar Aap Kisi Ki Thread Ko Padh Rahe Hai To comment Bhi KAr
sakte Hai agar Kuch galati hai to Unhe Sawar Bhi Sakte Hai Time Kisi Ke Pass Nahi Hota Hai Per Dekha Jaye To Time Nikala Jata Hai Agar Aap Shayari Padhane Aur Likhne Ke Shuqin Ho To Aur Kaash Ji Aapne Aaj Tak Sirf Meri EK Hi Thread Pe Comment Kiya Hai Bus Aur Pe Nahi
But Bat Ye Nahi Hai Comment Karo Ya Na Karo Wo Aapki Marji hai
Bus Jo DIl Mein Hum wohi yaha pe Likh Rahe Hai
Kisi Ke Dil Ko Tesh Pahuchane Ka Humara koi bhi Maksad Nahi Hai Agar Phir Bhi kisi Ko Bura Lage To Maf Kar Dena


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Rishi Agarwal

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Re: Why we create multiple ids,why we misunderstand things.share yr views

«Reply #11 on: January 22, 2010, 03:59:02 PM »

Quote from: @kaash on January 22, 2010, 03:52:11 PM

its ok Rishi dear
thanks for sharing yr thoughts.

now what do u think about that rating system
r u agree ?

lastly what are the other things by which we can minimise Multiple Ids.
I mean aisa ho ki Avtaar ki tarah ya signature ki tarah Id na badlen and
we must accept the role of Id and do fun,enjoy but be serious abt the Id

Kaash Ji Rating System Mein Faisla Kaun Karega Kya Aap Hume Ye Batayenge


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pankshivam

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Re: Why we create multiple ids,why we misunderstand things.share yr views

«Reply #12 on: January 22, 2010, 05:49:53 PM »

Nice thread kash ji

Multiple id ka funda mujhe thoda kam samjh aaya
becoz may be people have some problem to remember their passwords due to which they need new id, or may be some other reason.
Har insaan ke pas iske liye ek alag vajah ho sakti hai, so iske liye mai kuch nahi kah sakta, koyal ji ki kuch bato se mai agree hun aur last ki kuch lines thodi atpati lagi ki log masti marne jaise kam ke liye karte honge, may be karte honge, magar ham sb ke liye ek hi standards nai bana sakte, rishi bhai k sath jo hua vo bhi galat lagta hai, yahi thinking meri tarah sabki to nahi ho sakti,
any way coming to next point

log kahte hain unki post pe comments nahi hote, ya fir purane logo ki post pe jyada comments aate hain, isliye liye ye kah sakta hun, ki har member ka apna ek alag criteria hai, ab sabko sabhi post pe comment karne ka waqt ho ye bhi jaruri nahi aur ye baat bhi nahi kahi ja sakti ki agar hamari post bahoot achhi bbhi hai to uspe sabhi comment kare,

yahan kuch aaisa hai ki sb apne apne life se waqt nikal ke is site ko apna waqt dete hain, kuch log kabhi jyada der rahte hain to jyada der rahte hain to kuch kam, ab itni der me vo jitni post dekhenge utne pe comment bhi dete hain,
isliye jin logo k manana hai ki unki post pe comment nahi hote , then usne yahi request karunga ki aapki post agar achhi hai to uspe aaj nahi to kal comments jarur honge, aur ye mera apni thinking hai ki agar aapne achha likha hai toh log comment kare na kare vo pasand jarur ki jayegi, comment hone na hone se aapki thread kharab hai ye nahi sochana chahiye,

Kash ji
i don't think ki we should rate someone's creation with particular marks, ya if he/she is comfortable wid that then oki,
but kahi isse bhi koi naya problem create na ho ye bhi aage soch liya jaye to behtar hoga.becoz likhne wale ne jis feeling se likha ho mark dene wala bhi vahi feel kare ye jaruri nahi hai.
maine 1st day near abt 78 shayari post ki thi, but comments bahoot kam mile, but mujhe is baat se koi problem nahi huyi, dhire dhire hi sahi logo ne mere threads padhna shuru ki,

so conclusion is that :
i think comments se post ka koi gahara relation nahi hai but comment milte hain to aapki post jyada logo tak pahuchati hai.....

so friends ye mat sochiye ki aapko yahan notice nahi kiya ja raha hai, sb ke pas aapki post dekhne ka apna ek alag nazariya hai, aur comments reserve rakhne ka haq bhi...
kafi kuch kaha aur kafi kuch kahna tha, but abhi ke liye itna kafi hai.

take care friends
~pank~


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KOYAL46

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Re: Why we create multiple ids,why we misunderstand things.share yr views

«Reply #13 on: January 22, 2010, 06:17:01 PM »

Rishi-bhai main bhi yahi keh rahi hu, I am with you...."multipal id ka tuk(mean why some one will do) mujhe samajh nahi aaya"...I mean to say that no body would like to change his/her id in normal case....as it has already earned some credit.....only in case you have forgoten your password or even username....they may create new id but then how does that matter.......it only matters when intention are not good.
Dont get me wrong.....some times what we express in words is not
conveyed properly or understood properly...

Quote from: Rishi Agarwal on January 22, 2010, 01:59:43 PM


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Re: Why we create multiple ids,why we misunderstand things.share yr views

«Reply #14 on: January 22, 2010, 08:14:17 PM »

bahut khoob pank ji bahut hi safai se apne apna opinion likha hai sahi baat ek dumm sahi alfazo mein likhi hai...yahan post karna ipm hai naa ki comments k liye ladna..kaam karo fal ki chinta mat karo..khuda sab k sath insaf karta hai...


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