How to be a better couple ..... !!!!!!!!!!

1. Be realistic about each other.
Don't try to turn your partner into something he or she is not. Give your woman a break and understand that her physical appearance is not going to change overnight with the help of a few facials or treatments. And ladies, Brad Pitt has already been taken, so you're gonna have to do with what your man is like! Chill out, love each other for what you are.

2. Always talk things out.
Don't make assumptions about each other's feelings. Learn to express yourself better so that your partner understands what you're angry about, or hurt about, or even happy about! When you stop talking to each other from the heart, it's the beginning of the end.

3. Do stuffs together.
Make an effort to do things together. Do some sports or involve yourself in some shared activities; something both of you enjoy and are interested in. It could be as simple as watching VCDs together, or just strolling hand-in-hand down Orchard Road. Watch soccer with him once in a while though the green patch on TV puts you to sleep in 3 seconds. And guys, do give in if your gal asks for another day at window-shopping, rather than suggest that she go out with her girlfriends for "that sort of activities" instead. If you're spending more time with your friends rather than your partner, it's a warning sign that you're drifting apart!

4. Meet each other halfway.
If he agrees to throw out that rotten T-shirt with the Hulk Hogen print, you shouldn't kick up too much of a fuss if he asks that you keep your room tidy. There's got to be a little bit giving and taking in a relationship so learn to meet each other halfway.


5. Show your love.
Buy her flowers or candy or perfume every now and then, even if you have been together for five years. It's wonderful to continue showing someone that you care for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a Valentine's Day card. Knit him mini-socks he can't wear, buy him a packet of milk for breakfast, or pack his wardrobe for him… so he knows you can still be romantic and loving despite have been together for a while.

6. Respect each other.
Stop making jokes about her hair or skin, or whatever it is you love to laugh at. Ask yourself if she thinks it's funny. And if he has an inferiority complex about his height, stop ogling at tall guys and make him feel worse! Love is about respecting each other's feelings and being sensitive to each other at all times.

7. Bury the past.
Stop bringing up the past. No one wants to be reminded of the things that they're not proud of, so if he made an ass of himself over something trivial, laugh about it in private but don't keep bringing it up with him! And forgive her for her occasional dramatic throws of hysteria; she'll probably feel a lot more awful about it than you later. Whatever happened before is over.

8. Sit on your jealousy.
All of us go through spells of insecurity at the beginning of the relationship, but don't translate that insecurity into jealousy. If you're going through your partner's mail and cupboard, and eavesdropping on conversations, you know something's wrong - with you! Jealousy is like a poison that slowly spreads through the relationship before killing it. Trust your partner; love has to have trust in it.

9. Keep your commitments to each other.
If your partner is standing you up all the time and cancelling dates and breaking promises, you need to talk! If you're in a relationship, make your partner your priority and don't disappoint them if you can help it. It's really terrible when someone promises to take you to dinner, and then calls to cancel it. Don't make promises you can't keep. If your partner starts to feel that he/she is not important enough to you, you may just lose him/her.

10. Be honest.
Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first things in the morning, or telling him he has the biceps of a fly! When we say "be honest", we mean expressing your feelings clearly, not being bitingly cruel. When you're hurt, say so, and when you're angry, tell him/her, without getting hysterical. If you can't be honest with your partner, who can you be honest with? Love is also about honesty, and a relationship where no honesty exists probably isn't worth it!

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Thanks Isha...... Its actually like that .... Kuch hum chale ... kuch tum chalo.... !!!!!!

Thanks Nidhi.... I hope it will be helpful for us in future !!!!!

Is this for me? Wow........... really nice........Thanks for sharing with us.........Talat........        This will be really helpful for me  :wink:

Yes Talat,helpful rahega future ke liye lolzzz

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Thanks Meena ..... aur meri rab se dua hai ki iska print liye bina hi tum aur tumhare "wo" best couple bane !!!!! thanks !!!

Thanks Meena for wishes...!!!

Aur kamzoriyaan to sab main hoti hain... Nobody is perfect... lekin best couple wo hain... jo ek doosre ki strength ban jaate hain...aur phir kamzoiyaan baaqi nahin rehti!!!!! !!