The good on a relation ship :General Stories

The Good on a Relationship

The first and most important factor of being in a relationship is that you have someone that's there for you to take care of you and support you. Let's face it everyone gets lonely and when you have someone thats willing to be with you the feeling is really good. The second good feature of a relationship is that you can trust your partner and not have to worry about what they are doing because they are with you in a good relationship. I am not talking about one of those open relationship where both of the people can do what they please and get away with it. I am talking about one of those solid relationships that has the potential to take it to the next level. The third thing about a relationship that is positive is that everything is straight- forward and there is no second guessing about if the person like you. This is a good factor as because Constantly wondering if a person feels you or not is not a good place to be for anyone.

The Bad ABout a Relationship

The number one bad thing about an relationship is that when you become attached to a person everything they do effects you. Little things that usually do not bother you will when you love or strongely care about someone. This means if you und up discontinuing a relationship you are going to be twice as hurt because you put more into it. The second bad thing is that your freedom of trying to holla at someone else is gone because you are with a person you care about. Most people try and get around this by still maintaining contact with others that could lead to something. But in my experience if you love a woman or a man you have got to get rid of your back-up plans and put faith. Sooner or later back-up plans lead to break-up plans. The third thing bad about relationship is that you got to be able to compromise and give alittle bit to get alittle bit. For people that are indepedent(like me) it is hard because you are used to doing things your own way and not taking advice from nobody. But in a relationship you got to be able to give for your Spouse and meet things half way instead of doing things your way. I have messed up plently of time from that last one because I refuse to listen to anyone about matters.

The Good about being single

Well the number 1 good thing about being single is that you have unlimted freedom to do whatever you want. If you a person that does not like being tied down and rules being single is probaly the best thing for you. The second good feature of being single is that you are not emotionally attacted to anyone so you will not be stressed out about little things that a person in a relationship would be. The third thing that is good about being single is that you can focus on yourself and not have to worry about someone else. When you are in a relationship you are combined with someone and you have twice as many problems to deal with as you would when you are single

The Bad About being single

When you are single you don't have a person that you can truly trust and be with. You can go around being with all the guys/girls but in the end it is temporary and it will end. It is not as stable like an relationship would be. The second bad point of being single is that you miss out on learning relationship skills that you are going to need if you plan on being married at some point. If you are a person that always want to be single when you are ready to settle down it is going to be hard for u because you don't got the nessary skills to work with. Having the skills can avoid more drama and make good relationship great. The third thing that is bad about being single is that when you get to a certain age and you don't have someone you start questioning yourself constantly if i am going to be loved by anyone. Let's face it even the people that say they ain't going to get married,they every once ina while think about what it would be to be with special someone.