Does Love Needs A Reason??

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«Reply #15 on: February 07, 2008, 10:23:48 AM »
Thanx a lot for appreciating & for your valuable thoughts...
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«Reply #16 on: February 07, 2008, 10:55:34 AM »
I totally agree with punam,roja and honey...

LOVE NEVER NEEDS A REASON!!!!

IN LIFE,YOU NEVER HAVE A REASON TO LOVE SOMEONE..
WE READ SO MANY TIMES THAT...
"FALLING IN LOVE, ITSELF IS FALLING."

DEAR FRIENDS WHEN YOU KNOW BEING IN LOVE IS FALLING DOWN..
 DO YOU HAVE A REASON NOT TO FALL IN LOVE??

NOPE,THERE ARE SOME EMOTIONS,SOME THOUGHTS WHICH NEVER QUESTIONS A REASON..

IF LOVE REQUIRES A REASON, THEN WE CAN SAY THAT WE ARE COMMERCIALLY BOUNDED IN LIFE BUT NOT LOVE...
LOOKS MAY MATTER,A DESIRE TO OWN MAY MATTER,LUST MAY MATTER..
BUT, WHAT STAYS WITH YOU TILL THE END IS PURE LOVE,TRUE LOVE.A LOVE WITH NO CONDITIONS...

REGARDING THE QUESTION THAT IF THE MAN MET HER AFTER THE ACCIDENT,WOULD HE STILL LOVE HER??

YOU NEVER KNOW..RECENTLY THERE WAS THIS ARTICLE IN A PAPER ABOUT A MAN WHOSE GIRLFRIEND  HAD CANCER.. SHE IS STILL ON BED FIGHTING FOR LIFE SINCE YEARS..
WHEN ASKED BY THE JOURNALIST,DO YOU BELIEVE THAT LADY COULD BE SAVED?

THE MAN HAD A VERY FEW WORDS IN ANSWER..HIS ANSWER WAS
"I ALWAYS  PRAY TO ALMIGHTY FOR HER WELL-BEING.."

IT WAS REALLY EASY FOR THAT MAN TO MOVE AHEAD IN LIFE,BUT HE STAYED THERE..COZ HE NEVER HAD A REASON TO LOVE HER....

THIS MAY SOUND A BIT ROMANTIC CANDY-FLOSS KIND OF A STORY TO SOMEONE BUT..
TRUE LOVE WITH NO REASONS ONLY CAN  BOUND I AND YOU TOGHETHER
THROUGHOUT LIFE...THANX

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«Reply #17 on: February 07, 2008, 12:07:35 PM »
I'm totally agree with you kittu ji...
love doesn't need any reason , cuz its the reason for why we live as human beings...
love born with our first sight,so dont need any reason to know that this person that has moved something inside us is the one...
Love, for different people it varies. It’s an emotional feeling or a great affection from the hearts bottom, but its meaning is different in different hearts...
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«Reply #18 on: February 07, 2008, 01:10:45 PM »
Yes khawish ji i too agree with you ,love changes everything in life..
and there is no reason for love,when it happens its endless and in what
ever situation the boy or girl faces they stand united and together..
love happens its divine and sure the pairs face goodtimes and
bad times together thats love.And love is so deep that it can sacrifice
any thing in this world..They share one heart and one soul.If either of
them leaves his/her partner back cause of some accidents or sickness..
then that is no love its pure fake love.
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«Reply #19 on: February 07, 2008, 05:26:18 PM »
I'm totally agree with you kittu ji...
love doesn't need any reason , cuz its the reason for why we live as human beings...
love born with our first sight,so dont need any reason to know that this person that has moved something inside us is the one...
Love, for different people it varies. It’s an emotional feeling or a great affection from the hearts bottom, but its meaning is different in different hearts...


WOW...THANX A LOT PUNAM AGAIN..FOR YOUR LOVELY THOUGHT..
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«Reply #20 on: February 07, 2008, 05:37:42 PM »
LOVE ALWAYS NEED A REASON

APP KISI KO DEKHTEIN HAI APKO ACHA LAGTA HAI.. USKA SATH APKO ACHA LAGTA HAI SO THERE IS REASON TO LOVE HIM/HER

apne apne sochne ka tarika hai.. apko uski money, uski koi aor chees nahi chahiye app sirf aor sirf usko chahte hai... yah chaaht emotions hai.. emotions means apki feelings.. apni feelings ko satisfy karne (healthy way) ke liye app her pal uska sath chahte hai... so there is REASON... which are YOUR FEELING for that person.

Hope maine apna trak clearly samjhanya hai..

again for me yes Love needs a reason to love someone!!!
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«Reply #21 on: February 08, 2008, 01:02:13 AM »
HumTumisback and Pooja I heartily agree with you.

I agree with HumTum that unconditional love only exists in a mother's love. And with Pooja that any other love needs a reason and that reason itself validates another's feeling of being loved.

However I do believe that God's love is unconditional for anything and for anyone and only God's love is like that.
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«Reply #22 on: February 08, 2008, 05:15:27 AM »

I feel, except god's love all others have a reason.... You say mother's love.. there also she knows that this is her child, will she love another(not belonging to her) child with the same affection.. She wont'.. & that's a bitter truth.
So there's always a reason for falling in love.... You just cant' fall in love with anyone you see.... even if it's first sight love, the reason is either his/her smartness or beauty.. or maybe something else.... but you just cant' fall in love with anybody you come across..
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«Reply #23 on: February 08, 2008, 10:01:36 AM »

I feel, except god's love all others have a reason.... You say mother's love.. there also she knows that this is her child, will she love another(not belonging to her) child with the same affection.. She wont'.. & that's a bitter truth.
So there's always a reason for falling in love.... You just cant' fall in love with anyone you see.... even if it's first sight love, the reason is either his/her smartness or beauty.. or maybe something else.... but you just cant' fall in love with anybody you come across..

Everything happens for a reason.. And love is no exception. Even We love God for our Reasons of "Moksh", "Customs" and "Fear".

But, Its only love of Parents towards their children that have no reason at all. Children also know, that they are our parents, but still, they don't love them without reason, the reason being want of support, guidance, love, money, company and so on... but, well parents never expect anything from their children in return. They love them, just love them.. and love them.. without asking even to return their love in form of love only. Usual Smile

And we shall never compare love and affection of Mother to her two (or more) children. It could be different on different times. Its only a love of mother, that compels her to beat her child, to study or to eat. Because she wants the best for her child. Though, she hurts herself by hurting her child. She cries silently in her heart seeing her child weeping.

Also, when she love any infant (not belonging to her) she love him for no reason. It comes by default. Love for infants is what, I think, without a reason.. That's why we say, God lies in heart of a Child only... Usual Smile

But still another aspect... "When you are in True love with someone, you need no reason to be in love"...
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«Reply #24 on: February 08, 2008, 10:36:10 AM »

I feel, except god's love all others have a reason.... You say mother's love.. there also she knows that this is her child, will she love another(not belonging to her) child with the same affection.. She wont'.. & that's a bitter truth.
So there's always a reason for falling in love.... You just cant' fall in love with anyone you see.... even if it's first sight love, the reason is either his/her smartness or beauty.. or maybe something else.... but you just cant' fall in love with anybody you come across..

Everything happens for a reason.. And love is no exception. Even We love God for our Reasons of "Moksh", "Customs" and "Fear".

But, Its only love of Parents towards their children that have no reason at all. Children also know, that they are our parents, but still, they don't love them without reason, the reason being want of support, guidance, love, money, company and so on... but, well parents never expect anything from their children in return. They love them, just love them.. and love them.. without asking even to return their love in form of love only. Usual Smile

And we shall never compare love and affection of Mother to her two (or more) children. It could be different on different times. Its only a love of mother, that compels her to beat her child, to study or to eat. Because she wants the best for her child. Though, she hurts herself by hurting her child. She cries silently in her heart seeing her child weeping.

Also, when she love any infant (not belonging to her) she love him for no reason. It comes by default. Love for infants is what, I think, without a reason.. That's why we say, God lies in heart of a Child only... Usual Smile

But still another aspect... "When you are in True love with someone, you need no reason to be in love"...
The point was.... Is there any reason for falling in love or not..? Once you fall in love, nothing can stop you from loving.... but the point is what causes us to fall in love.... If there's absolutely no reason to fall in love, why dont' we fall in love with every person we meet in life.... Ofcourse there must be something that strikes/attracts us towards someone..
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«Reply #25 on: February 08, 2008, 10:39:28 AM »
Yeah... there's absolutely no reason for parents to fall in love with their children... Winking
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«Reply #26 on: February 08, 2008, 10:40:46 AM »
Roja .....  everybody has diffrent thoughts.. but can you please tell me .. would happen if that lady Met with an accident before that Man came in to her life, would he still be intersted in her and loved her?

well yes ..... there is a diffrence in the love type.... The only love type which needs no reason is the love of a mother towards her children. Apart from that...  can you give me any example to where we can say ohhh yeah ..love needs no reason?Huh?

The main reason behind love is desire, Desire to achieve, desire to get. The biggest lie in the world is I LOVE YOU. When a boy says these words to a girl or visa verse, he/she has desire to get him/her. Once they get each other, only I & YOU live LOVE dies. Any comments are more than welcome!!

Absolutely right...Well said yaar...Love is a game of  hormones...Well said Humtum..Only the relation between a mom & her child needs no reason...
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«Reply #27 on: February 08, 2008, 10:45:37 AM »

I feel, except god's love all others have a reason.... You say mother's love.. there also she knows that this is her child, will she love another(not belonging to her) child with the same affection.. She wont'.. & that's a bitter truth.
So there's always a reason for falling in love.... You just cant' fall in love with anyone you see.... even if it's first sight love, the reason is either his/her smartness or beauty.. or maybe something else.... but you just cant' fall in love with anybody you come across..

Everything happens for a reason.. And love is no exception. Even We love God for our Reasons of "Moksh", "Customs" and "Fear".

But, Its only love of Parents towards their children that have no reason at all. Children also know, that they are our parents, but still, they don't love them without reason, the reason being want of support, guidance, love, money, company and so on... but, well parents never expect anything from their children in return. They love them, just love them.. and love them.. without asking even to return their love in form of love only. Usual Smile

And we shall never compare love and affection of Mother to her two (or more) children. It could be different on different times. Its only a love of mother, that compels her to beat her child, to study or to eat. Because she wants the best for her child. Though, she hurts herself by hurting her child. She cries silently in her heart seeing her child weeping.

Also, when she love any infant (not belonging to her) she love him for no reason. It comes by default. Love for infants is what, I think, without a reason.. That's why we say, God lies in heart of a Child only... Usual Smile

But still another aspect... "When you are in True love with someone, you need no reason to be in love"...
Di according to me there's nothing like true luv...Either is luv or not.
Neway theres many reasons for falling in luv...Its physical,Its mental,its chemical as said by one of our yo frnd...
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«Reply #28 on: February 08, 2008, 10:49:41 AM »
Yeah... there's absolutely no reason for parents to fall in love with their children... Winking
Just tell me one thing.... Just after the birth of a baby, a lady is told that this baby is not hers, will she still love the baby the same way....
So here again, the reason is that the baby belongs to her.... If her love is purely unconditional, she should love other kids the same way as she loves her own kid.... but is that so..?
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«Reply #29 on: February 08, 2008, 10:58:36 AM »
Yeah... there's absolutely no reason for parents to fall in love with their children... Winking
Just tell me one thing.... Just after the birth of a baby, a lady is told that this baby is not hers, will she still love the baby the same way....
So here again, the reason is that the baby belongs to her.... If her love is purely unconditional, she should love other kids the same way as she loves her own kid.... but is that so..?

I have said, love of parents towards THEIR CHILD... not the love of woman towards child.
Koi cheez apni bhi ho, to bhi aisa jaroori nahin ki usey utna hi pyaar kiya jaaye... lekin kisi cheez se sirf is liye pyaar ho ki woh apni hai... yeh to koi reason nahin hua.. Roll Eyes For eg... You know, that your bike is yours, or your parents are yours... but.. then also, you love them for some reason... but.. your parents love you without any reason... Hai naa... ??
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