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Friendship:

What is friendship?? How it happens?? I do not have answers for this? But definitely I am having my views on it.

How u decides that the person u sees or meet can be your friend? Say it is your first day in the school or college, u hardly knows anybody, but still by the end of the day u tend to make some friends. How it is happening? Is it just by seeing the face of a person u decide that - yes, he/ she can be my friend, or there is some divine factor which guides u.
I think while making friends u try to find somewhat of you in other persons. Say u opt for like minded people. Even if you meet a person for the first time, by the end of the day u try to establish some opinion about him/ her.  Then u feels and decides that, yes he/ she can be my friend. What is that which influences you?

For instance, if you go to a supermarket to buy something, there might be different varieties/ qualities of what u are looking for, and I think u will go for the best appearing one. Does appearance counts in every aspect of life. Be it consumables, friends, life partners etc.,. Say if some one appears not so nice, cannot he/ she have friends? I don’t think so, as per my opinion appearance doesn’t really matter, what matters is attitude, behavior, decency, commitments and the likes. Nevertheless appearance plays a vital role also.

I am a bit confused….

Any ways, friendship is something ……………..//;;,,,\\\. What it may be, but I require friends to be there for me at all times and I will be for them whenever they need me….


These are just my views,

Friend, bahoot hi acha topic liya hai apne. School /college mai friends apne app hi bn jaty hai aor kuch ke pass app jakar baat kar ke unhe dost banaty hai. kuch ko apki baty achi lagati hai aor kuch ki baty apko achi lagati hai.
waqat ke sath sab hi apke dost hoty hai, magar ek do dost bahoot khas ho jaty hai, jo apki care karty hai aor jinki care app sabse jayada karty hai!!
Friendship mai personality kai baar, kaam karati hai aor kai baar nahi. yah totally app per depend karta hai, ki app ke is baare mai kaya vichar hai.
mera khayal se yah khud insaan ki nature per depend karta hai, ki wo kis nature ke insaan ke sath jayada relex feel karta hai, kis per kitana trust kar sakata hai aor bure waqat mai kon kitana sath de sakata hai.

very well said pooja!

insaan pe khud depend karta hai ke woh kiske saath comfortable feel karta hai. aur mere khayal se its the most beautiful relation bcos isse tum khud choose kar sakhte ho. kisi se dosti rakhna hai ya nahin yeh koi majboori ya farz wala kam nahin. tum kisi ki care karoge agartum chahoge.  :D