Blessing

Jise vo chahta hay usi ko aajmata hay
Khazane rehmaton ke isi bahane lootata hay..........anonymous

Dard jab had se bar jaaye to dawa ban jaata hay..........anonymous

good one!!!!

Dil diya, dard diya, aor de di lambi jindagi
bas ab itani hai chaht, de de ise jeene ki bandangi!!
jo yah dil use dard ke kabil laga, to kayun,
 is dil ko, khud ki tarah, pathar ka nahi bana diya!!

Gum ki andheri raat mein dil ko na bekararr kar
Subah zaroor aayegi subah ka intezar kar!!!

Blessed are those who can live with tragedy in their hearts and smile on their face... :!:

Now,you know, Pooja ji, ki aapko pathar ka kyon nahin banaya... :?:

We blame HIM or others for our miseries because we don't know our past but the real truth is...nobody makes us miserable or happy except our own actions

karam pradhan visv rachi rakha
jo jas karhin so tas fal chakha...Ramcharitmanas

The way out is...
Ram bhajan binu sunahu khagesa
mitahin na jivan ker kalesa...Ramcharitmanas

Ram bhajan means knowledge of the absolute truth knowing which we get emancipated from this world of miseries...

The only purpose of human life is to know that absolute truth...Sri Ramkrishn Paramhansa

karo pooja karo upwaas
nishkam bhav se aur chup chap
jo hua achha hua, jo ho raha achha hi hay
hoga jo achha hi hoga, mann mein sada rakhna vishwaas

abhi bhale kuch samajh na aaye
dheeraj rakho apne man maaye
vasant samay aane par aaye
unsuljhe ka hul mil jaaye

OK, Let's discuss mann (mind).......

According to Hindu philosophy, mind is represented by moon.......now, moon never remains same.......it keeps on changing everyday, that's why, our mind also never remains fixed.......it keeps on moving in all directions looking for happiness and pleasure.......

Along with mind, we have got one more thing, buddhi i.e. intellect.......represented by Sun.......it is the buddhi which takes the decision of right and wrong.......

Suppose, our mind says, so many people drink.......why not try one? Mind always lives in illusions, it is very easily affected by what it sees.......Now, the buddhi will say...no, its not good for you...its a bad thing...if you accept what your buddhi says, you won't drink...but if you accept what your mind says, then...

We very rarely use our buddhi...actually we use our buddhi to fulfill the vasanas (desires) of our mind.......since it is the mind according to which we always act, that is why, we match the Chandra Kundli of the prospective bride and groom for compatibility test and not sun signs.......compatibility tests based on sun signs do not stand much chance of success

How to get rid of the illusory nature of mind :?: Can mind be changed :?:
Of course, mind can be changed.......since it is always wandering in all directions, it can certainly be changed.......mind is made up of prakriti i.e. nature i.e. prithvi, jal , agni, vayu and aakash.......if we change prakriti, we can change the mind.......

Prakriti is of three types, namely, Sattvic, Rajasic and Tamasic.......

Now, to change the prakriti.......we need to do only one thing.......change the type of food we eat.......

If we start eating Sattvic food, our mind will become more balanced and calm and tranquil.......

There is one more thing on which our mind depends.......the prana, the breath.......slower the breath, calmer the mind.......breath can be slowed down by doing pranayama.......but for perfection in pranayama, food should necessarily be sattvic.......

Subtle and slower the breath, the more calm and tranquil the mind will become.......

For subtle breath, you need sattvic food.......

For slowing down the speed of breath, pranayama and right posture.......
if your posture is not right, no amount of  pranayama is going to help you.......right posture means, as far as possible keep your back, neck and head along the same straight line.......

Dheeraj Dharam Mitr Aru Nari, Aapad Kaal Parkhiye Chaaree
(Aranyasopaan, Ramcharitmanas)

 

khir.. meiney bich mein pda to nahin ke kya likha hai ... but itna bda massage ped ke wakey    lag gya.
keep it up delhi waleyooN  :wink: