Dahej Ki Aag 'Shaadi Yaa Saudebaazi??' "Khwaish"

khwaish ji aapne bahut hee buning topic par ye kalaam pesh karke qaabile taareef kaam kiyaa hai main dil se mubarakbaad detaa hoon

sahi kaha aapne khwaish ji,
    betiyon ko abhishaap bana diya chand logo ne lalach ki khatir afsos to is baat ka hai chand log ab kuchh pratishat tak ho gaye hein aur apne aapko jamane ke saath chalta hua mahsoos karte hein,
    aapki rachna bahut hi achhi ban padi hai aapke dil ki awaaj logon tak pahunche aur log apne vichar badlen aur betiyon ko vardaan samjhen, yahi meri kaamna hai

ghansham das ahuja   

Kawaish  ji .  Aap   mubarakbaad  ke   mustaheq   hain   ki  apni poems  mein   aksar  bahut  aham   muddon   ko   uthhate  hain  aur  readers  ko  food  for  thought  dete  hain .  Dahej  samaj  ki  eik   badi  laanat  hai  jiska   khatma   jitni  jaldi  ho jaaye  achha  hai .  Lekin  iske  liye   na   sirf  aam  raai bulki  kuchh  sakht  samaaji  paabandiyaan  bhi  zaroori  hain .Isska  eik  pahloo  bahut  aham  hai  jo  main  share  karna chaahoonga . Mujhe  yaad  padta  hai  mere  eik  dost  eik  ladki ke  ishq  mein  giraftaar  ho  gaye  thhe  jo  doosri  zaat  ki thhi  aur  jiske  parents  ke  paas  jahez  mein  dene  ke  liye kuchh  khaas  na  thha . Mere  dost  darmiyaani  haisyat  lekin  oonche  khaandan  ke  thhe . Isliye  unke  parents  rishte  ke liye  raazi  nahi  thhe . Mere  dost  ne  hum  kuchh  doston   ko apne  parents  ko  convince  karne  ki  zimmedari  sounpi . Hum ne dost  ke  parents  ko  zaat  mein  farq  per  to  convince  kar liya  lekin  unki  mother  ki  eik  baat  ka  hamaare  paas  koi convincing  jawaab  na  thha . Unki  mother  ne  kaha  thha  : ' Mera  eik  ladka  hai  3  ladkiyaan  hain . Meri  itni  haisyat nahi  ki  in  ladkiyon  ka  jahez  de  sakoon .  Jo  is  ladke  ke jahez  mein  loongi  use  baaqi  ko  niptaane  mein  madad milegi . Agar  main  jahez  na  loon  to  is  baat  ki  kya  guarantee hai  ki  mujhe  mere  jaise  hi  jahez  na  maangnewaale  ladke mil  jaayeinge  aur  meri  ladkiyaan  ghar  mein  baithi  na  rah jaayeingi' . Yeh  samaaj ki  eik  kadvi   haqeeqat  hai . Satyamev Jayate  mein  eik  achha  hal  bhi  eik  organization  ki koshishon  se  mila  hai  jo  society  ki  kuchh  sanctions (e.g. unka  decision  ki  aisi  koi  shaadi  na  attend  kareinge jismein  jahez  liya  jaata ho ) ki  wajah  se  mumkin  hua  hai. ... Khuda  kare  aapki  poem   dahez  ki  laanat  par  sanjeeda soch  paida  kare . HASAN

Bahut khoob Khwaish ji
people have already expressed their positive views on the topic. you have really touched the hearts.

hmmm khawahish ji bahut gambhir mudda hai .....aur yeh aaj se nahi kaisalon se haamare desh ki sabse badi samsyon mein se ek hai...aapne apni nazm ke jariye ise utara hai bahut hi achhe tarike se ....par main sochta hoon ki yahan yoindia par itne log ise nahi padh payenge  koi aisa tareeka aapnaye jisse net ki dunia ke alawa bhi log ise padhein sune aur is gambhir samasya ko samjh kar ise dur karne mein madad karein........aapke kuch kalm padhe maine har bar aap aamir khan ki tarah ek naye aur gambhir mudde par likhte hai ...jo na sirf kabil-e-tareef hai balki himmat-e-daad bhi hai.

bahut umda bahut khoob khwahishji....



Views already expressed....girls need to be taught  to live independently..education can help but change in psychology is reqd..which is lacking in our society....

U hv beautifully expressed ur views....daad....