CAN LOVE HAPPEN ON NET? IF YES DO U THINK IT CAN BE TRUE

by gum on September 24, 2006, 05:34:37 PM
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roshni246
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«Reply #15 on: October 02, 2006, 04:14:41 PM »
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Well Guys thanks to all of you who have visited this topic... Specially those who have replied back to the same...My heartly thanks to
1- Roshni
2- Nirbhay
3- Shayar_dildar (jinhe yeh topic basi laga)
4- Ajay Boss
5- Touchy
6- Redwhitegang

Well what I saw was maximum of us think that love can be true on net... But what I feel is something opposite to it...What I guess that people on the net can be gud friends but never a perfect sole mate of lovers...Sorry If I am getting rude to those who have got their pair on the internet... When I opened this topic I was da'am sure that the answer of maximum of us would be NO... But to my surprise the first reply of ROSHNI was yes and then the chain was never ending...
You all might wonder that why GUM is against this.Its bcoz their is a fact behind it... I do agree people meet on net, know each other, express their feeling to others, and propose each other...but in real sense its not love its just a try to find a partner...Moreover you might have read many articles on the net regarding this....But I am gonna oppose this bcoz one of my friend did the same mistake and felt in love with someone on net....They use to talk for hours on cellphone...and when they met in real they were not even ready to accept each other  as friends......Seems strange hmmm?Huh? Ask this question to your heart and hope you are gonna change ur mind


With Love
GUM



ur most welcum gum it was my pleasure to share my thoughts with ya guyz...!!!

i think k aapne jo kaha ek side se theek hai true and watever....!!
lekin still im not against net relations and net love...ya theek hai agar yeh relation friendship tak rahe to zyada acha hota hai kyu ki agarr real life mein wo ek dusre ko accept nahi bhi karte hain to itna dard nahi hota jitna ek pyaar ko khone se hota hai....!!!
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roshni246
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«Reply #16 on: October 02, 2006, 04:25:38 PM »
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Well Guys thanks to all of you who have visited this topic... Specially those who have replied back to the same...My heartly thanks to
1- Roshni
2- Nirbhay
3- Shayar_dildar (jinhe yeh topic basi laga)
4- Ajay Boss
5- Touchy
6- Redwhitegang

Well what I saw was maximum of us think that love can be true on net... But what I feel is something opposite to it...What I guess that people on the net can be gud friends but never a perfect sole mate of lovers...Sorry If I am getting rude to those who have got their pair on the internet... When I opened this topic I was da'am sure that the answer of maximum of us would be NO... But to my surprise the first reply of ROSHNI was yes and then the chain was never ending...
You all might wonder that why GUM is against this.Its bcoz their is a fact behind it... I do agree people meet on net, know each other, express their feeling to others, and propose each other...but in real sense its not love its just a try to find a partner...Moreover you might have read many articles on the net regarding this....But I am gonna oppose this bcoz one of my friend did the same mistake and felt in love with someone on net....They use to talk for hours on cellphone...and when they met in real they were not even ready to accept each other  as friends......Seems strange hmmm?Huh? Ask this question to your heart and hope you are gonna change ur mind


With Love
GUM



ur most welcum gum it was my pleasure to share my thoughts with ya guyz...!!!

i think k aapne jo kaha ek side se theek hai true and watever....!!
lekin still im not against net relations and net love...ya theek hai agar yeh relation friendship tak rahe to zyada acha hota hai kyu ki agarr real life mein wo ek dusre ko accept nahi bhi karte hain to itna dard nahi hota jitna ek pyaar ko khone se hota hai....!!!



Well Roshu ji yahi toh galti kha gaye na aap....Pyaar toh pyaar he hota hai...Aur dil toothne pe dard ek saman he hota hai....But I respect ur thought also....



lekin shayad net love zyada dil dhukata hai gum sahab...!!!


aur u hav 2 respect my thoughts :-P
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roshni246
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«Reply #17 on: October 02, 2006, 04:37:40 PM »
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Okey ROSHU JI MAAN LE AAP KE BAAT...KHUSH...
CHALO AAB MEIN CHALA>..AND THANKS FOR THAT LOVELY MAIL



konsi mail?

waise jaiye humne aapko konsa roh rakha hai...:-P byby
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roshni246
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«Reply #18 on: October 02, 2006, 05:37:49 PM »
yaa aap bhi meri fwd mails ki list mein ho...so?
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roshni246
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«Reply #19 on: October 02, 2006, 05:42:27 PM »
PEHLE USE KARTI THI AB NAHI DELETE KARDIYA
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roshni246
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«Reply #20 on: October 02, 2006, 05:45:41 PM »
bas mann nahi tha wahan jane ka so delete kardiya...

waise aap humeroshni JIIIIIII kyu bolte ho,...roshni kaafi nahi kya
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roshni246
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«Reply #21 on: October 02, 2006, 05:49:22 PM »
ji waise restpect bina ji k nahi di ja sakti???

roshni ji aisa lagta hai jaie mein 2 bachon ki maa hu...isliye roshni bhi chalega
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roshni246
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«Reply #22 on: October 02, 2006, 05:53:53 PM »
uuuuuuuuuufffff sirf roshni...nahi to humse baat na karo..!
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badnaam_shayar
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«Reply #23 on: October 11, 2006, 05:25:35 PM »
Ya luv can be happen on NET.....Net is just a way to meet and for making friends......but its upon u that how long u can make a relation......

Agar koi Net pe milke kisi se Pyar karta hai toh koi burai nahi...but haan use thoda Practical hona Chayie.....jaise ki Phone ke through bhi touch me rehna chayie......Kyunki Insaan ki aadhi asliyat uski awaaz or aadhi uska Chehra bata deta hai.....jitna Practical aap relations ko handle karenge utna hee Relation mazboot hoga......yeh jaroori nahi ki NET pe Pyar nahi hota....hota hai Pyar toh kahin bhi ho sakta hai....kayi dafa ek Wrong Number bhi Mahobbat de jata hai......isliye i m sure that Love can happen on Net......!!!!!!!!
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roshni246
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«Reply #24 on: October 11, 2006, 05:53:42 PM »
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Ya luv can be happen on NET.....Net is just a way to meet and for making friends......but its upon you that how long you can make a relation......

Agar koi Net pe milke kisi se Pyar karta hai toh koi burai nahi...but haan use thoda Practical hona Chayie.....jaise ki Phone ke through bhi touch me rehna chayie......Kyunki Insaan ki aadhi asliyat uski awaaz or aadhi uska Chehra bata deta hai.....jitna Practical aap relations ko handle karenge utna hee Relation mazboot hoga......yeh jaroori nahi ki NET pe Pyar nahi hota....hota hai Pyar toh kahin bhi ho sakta hai....kayi dafa ek Wrong Number bhi Mahobbat de jata hai......isliye i m sure that Love can happen on Net......!!!!!!!!


nice big bro
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waheed_rose2004
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«Reply #25 on: October 12, 2006, 08:49:16 AM »
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Ya luv can be happen on NET.....Net is just a way to meet and for making friends......but its upon you that how long you can make a relation......

Agar koi Net pe milke kisi se Pyar karta hai toh koi burai nahi...but haan use thoda Practical hona Chayie.....jaise ki Phone ke through bhi touch me rehna chayie......Kyunki Insaan ki aadhi asliyat uski awaaz or aadhi uska Chehra bata deta hai.....jitna Practical aap relations ko handle karenge utna hee Relation mazboot hoga......yeh jaroori nahi ki NET pe Pyar nahi hota....hota hai Pyar toh kahin bhi ho sakta hai....kayi dafa ek Wrong Number bhi Mahobbat de jata hai......isliye i m sure that Love can happen on Net......!!!!!!!!


i  agree  wit   u  brother.........mere  dil  ki  baat  kah  diye   :lol:
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«Reply #26 on: October 12, 2006, 08:56:30 AM »
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first of all yeh topic badaaaa solid hai...bohot log iske against honge koi iske saath....kyu ki har kisi ki apni experience hoti hai...



Mera manna yeh hai ki..:

agar kya dono taraf sahi ho aur apne partner wat say...lover pe bharosa hai aur wo usse na thode to offcourse love can b true.....
zaroori nahi k dekh kar amne samne ka pyaar zyada pakka ho...but yeh bhi hai k net relations mein trust zyada hona chaiye...cause you cant control him/her...and agar wo bhi serious ho to in my opinion net aur real love mein koi farak nahi....lekin net relations bade nazuk hote hain...ek karoch se tut jaate hain kyu ki if he or she is next 2 you...aap un missunderstanding ko mita sakte ho...lekin if net relation mein koi missunderstanding hoti ya..
bharosa tut ta hai to usse theek karna bada mushkil hota hai...cause...wo aapke samne nahi...aapke kareeb nahi...aapko kya maloom k wo mazak karraha hai ya serious hai...ya wo phir bharosa todega ya nahi...
net relation tab tak hai jab tak trust hai...lekin hurt dono karti hai.....kyu ki dono pyaar hia..ek andekhe aur ek amne samne...
khabi khabi ek dusre ki kami shayad mehsus k kash wo yahan hota/hoti...watever....aur bohot bar...aap jo net pe lagte ho real life mein nahi hote...bohot bar hum net relation mein wo bante hain...wo real mein bhi banna chahte hain....to jab aap usse milte ho to mehsus hota hia k yeh wo nahi jisse mein net pe mili thi/mila tha...
yeh bhi hai k kayi net relation marriage mein badalti hai...succesful hoti hain...lekkin yeh bohottttt kum cases hain...!!!
net relations true hosakti hai but bas..usse nibhana har kisi ki bas ki baat nahi...na itna asan hai...Winking

(yeh sirfffff meri opinion hai.....kuch galat kaha ho to sry... Puzzled !  Puzzled ! )



~roshni~


aap  ke  vichaar  bahot  sunder lage.........  aap  buddhimaan  ho  tongue3  mera  bhi yahi maan  na  hai  tongue3
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«Reply #27 on: October 12, 2006, 07:53:11 PM »
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In most cases we think: this is true love, when in fact it’s not. But than if this ain’t love than what it is? There are plenty of things that we confuse with love.


First of all...In Love u have be in Control through Mind....Bcoz Mind is the Only thing that can make and Break long friendship.....If u think or u come to know that relation is not love then u can easily observe that what is it......it can be a just timepass....or it can be a human selfishness....or it can be a attraction....or it can be a sexual feelings.....but it depend on u that how can u make tests to observe True love...!!!!


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It could be just the basic instinct. The feelings can be passionate and crazy, but in fact both people may want only sex. And after it all the misunderstanding starts, and once infatuated lovers will find out that they have nothing in common and sometimes they don’t even know what to talk with each other.


See Bro.....I Say Sex is the most important and post Memorable part of love....but u have to take it only for expressing ur love not to use it for overcoming form some Body Requirements....!!!!


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Another variant is when people lack support, care and attention to their person or they just scared to stay single. Being with someone can be a habit when one simply got used to the other. It can either be a sick addiction or some self-interest. People call all these types of relationship love just by mistake or trying to conceal the true nature of it.



See Nobody can give full attention to his or her love....everybody has to earn a good living and everybody also wants to fulfill his or her dreams....so these both the things can be managed equally...so that the partner cant feel lonely.....give a dose of attention to ur partner and also realise him/her that u r attentive with ur sweet dreams.....it also depend on the understanding of each other.....that how much time he or she can have with me or how he have for bussiness or job.....coz today both the things are eqivalent.......!!!!!!!!


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But than what does real love look and feel like? Maybe it’s when two people seem to know each other for ages and even in their previous lives. They can go on talking and talking and conversation never lacks topics and never gets dull. Or people don’t have to say anything because they understand each other without words. And those moments, minutes and even hours of silence are never uncomfortable. True love is when partners complete one another, when they’re together it’s peaceful, the whole other world with it’s sufferings and problems doesn’t exist and nothing even matters.


True love means understanding. One trusts another more than him/herself and feels ready to satisfy every little need of a partner. Two people don’t stop for a second looking into each other eyes.


May be Sometime ur Partner will fight with u a reason that u r attentive with him or her........but that dosent mean that she/he need any type of partitions....this problem can be solve out by just a smart confrence in a couple....!!!!!!!!
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«Reply #28 on: October 12, 2006, 07:58:49 PM »
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Da'am gud Answer Gaurav....LOVE  YOUR THOUGHS AND LOVE you FOR THIS


thnx bro....Love hee woh cheez hai jiski aksar kami maine mehssoooos ki hai :wink:
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«Reply #29 on: October 12, 2006, 08:08:39 PM »
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True love is when you are able to look at the persons' good and bad qualities day in and day out and still want to be with them, still want to have and hold a relationship with them. When you disagree, which happens in all healthy relationships, you manage to still find a part of you which has compassion for that person. It's when you love a person regardless of how they look when they wake up, even if they gain or lose a few or a lot of pounds. Love, in my opinion is a choice, we choose to love and choose not to love.


SAMJHA CHOTE...


Wonderfull..... Usual Smile
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