Do all yoindian stand together ???????

[Tosha]

I dont' make a distinction b/w Net/Phone or real life friends.... one thing which is common in these is friend.
One of my net friends once suggested me that I shouldn't take anything seriously and the friends we make here are all virtual. That day too I had told him that I take friendship seriously.  Infact mainey apney net friends ko real life friends se jyaada ahmiyat di hai.... aur rahi baat vishwas karne ki to vishwas to real life friends par bhi nahi kiya ja sakta....
Every yoindian has his/her own life, own way of thinking, ideas & different point of views.... sometimes we argue and fight as well.. but all this happen in real life too..
We share our feelings through different forums & to some extent interact more as compared to real life.... and meeting of yoindians is a proof to that....
Even though we hadn't met ever before, we were not unknown to each other.... & what more to say, now we all are real life friends....

What matters in Friendship is Faith, Love, Truthfulness, Caring Nature & the ability to resolve issues. It doesn't matter whether the person is ur real life friend or not.... Kabhi kabhi jab hum kaafi low feel karte hain.... tab kisi dost ki kahi huyi kuchh baatein hi kaafi bara sahaara hoti hain.... Atleast we have a feeling that somebody is there to listen to us, whether far or near but someone we can depend on.

MEeeee tooo!!!

[bohra_ajay]

i will say no

coz ye sab moh maya hai

in front of our computer screens v may feel sumthng but whn it comes to reallity its totally different

one more thing i belive is tat rishto mein duri zaruri hai
warna hum jaise bhi hain waise nahi reh paenge

difference do occur

just a recent incident was that ki a very gud female shayar of yoindia was criticised by another female yoindian by saying ki our elder shayar is attracting boys by doing some sort of shayaris

i think its not fair on our part to say nethng

b ut ne ways jab real life mein dhoke mil sakte hain to fir ye toh internet hai babu

agar aap ka dil saaf hai to aap ko dokhe kabhi nahi milenge ...!!

Mujhe aaj tak koi dokha nai mila ... 100% sacche aur chat ke acche dost mile hai ... yaha tak ki ... mere wo bhi mile mujhe :d

 Well said Tosha.... my experience is same as urs is...

[phoenix]

i will say no

coz ye sab moh maya hai

in front of our computer screens v may feel sumthng but whn it comes to reallity its totally different

one more thing i belive is tat rishto mein duri zaruri hai
warna hum jaise bhi hain waise nahi reh paenge

difference do occur

just a recent incident was that ki a very gud female shayar of yoindia was criticised by another female yoindian by saying ki our elder shayar is attracting boys by doing some sort of shayaris

i think its not fair on our part to say nethng

b ut ne ways jab real life mein dhoke mil sakte hain to fir ye toh internet hai babu

agar aap ka dil saaf hai to aap ko dokhe kabhi nahi milenge ...!!

Mujhe aaj tak koi dokha nai mila ... 100% sacche aur chat ke acche dost mile hai ... yaha tak ki ... mere wo bhi mile mujhe :d

thn tosha either ur r too wise in chossing frnds or far too luckier

but my experience has been a bitter one

and i wish ki u ppl nvr hav tat kind of experience

jahan tak rahi baar apna dil saaf rakhne ki toh wat can i say yaar...........

i only know wat i am ...............................

[Tosha]

I'v felt it is easier to know the other end over the net rather than in real ... cos it is easier to be fooled by a smiling face where as over the net ... if the other is bluffing you can find out the untrue just by the way he writes.  HH .. Hee hee he  hee eeee!!

Itz thatz simplez!!

[bohra_ajay]

Well Tosha... its comfortable too on net behind screen... sometimes there r certain situations where in we cant find it comfortable to share or discuss it with person in real.. but on net we do it easily.. as we know the person is sitting behind the scree nn we are also behind some screen.. its like Confession Box.. in Church..

[Tosha]

yahi to main bhi kahe rahi hun janab .,... kya maine FARSI boli

[phoenix]

so is this idiot box only for saying sumthng wat u cant say in real life

[Tosha]

u r biased!!

[phoenix]

in what sense?

mainly the thing is u want this box only to listen u and give verdict and not to judge u

y dont u use confession box for that purpose

let that preist take home some virtue

[bohra_ajay]

in what sense?

mainly the thing is you want this box only to listen you and give verdict and not to judge you

y dont you use confession box for that purpose

let that preist take home some virtue

 y dont u take the person on the other end as the preist.

 Lets just take the example of ur post in chit chat forum, i feel like killing. in that forum theo ther persons are intracting with u sharing there own experiences, understanding you and giving thier opinion without any prejudice. they dont know u in real, most of them dont even know ur history, abt ur life, still they are being a counsellar to you. and at times u find such a person on net whom u dont meet in person or talk on phone and u go to him/her to talk n consult everything n at times in his/her need u do what he / she is doing to u.

so this isnt an idiot box. This is a platform where u can interact and get counselling hiding ur personal details and whereabts. and mind me it really helps and is much better than p2p counselling in real.

[natural]

I agree with you Ajay.... In simple words we can know a net friend much better than a real life friends.... In our real life we might hesitate to say something or so, and generally dont' feel a need of saying things like I miss him/her....:D  but when you are sitting in front of this so called idiot box you dont' feel any shame and express urself in a better way....

[Tosha]

kya baat hain .... Mina Jaggu ki waste ... Taliya