Love- A mere word or do we know what it is all about?

[gum]

Ek Bhayut Meetha Sa Ehsaas Hai Pyaar.. Agar Pyaar mil jaye to jannat aur na mile to nark se bhi battar zindagi. Mera sawal yeh hai ke agar hum kisi ko pyaar karte hai aur kisi wajah se us ko pa nahi sakte toh kya humko kisi aur ko zindagi mein accept kar lena chahiye aur agar karna chahiye toh kay yeh saccha pyaar hoga.... Aur nahi toh kyun??? Awaiting your replies

[lovely_ash]

mere halat bhi bilkul tere jaisa hai yaar mujhe bhi pata nahi ki kya karna chahye or mere pas koi jawab nahi hai tere es sawal ka..
magar itna keh sakta ho ki main to kabhi ose bhool nahi sakta ho or na hi shayad kisi or ko zindagi mein accept kar sako es waqt magar phir bhi pata nahi ki main kya karo....

agar kisi ki pas humari es dost ki sawal ka jawab hai to zaror batana...

[sayani kuri]

bohat umda "L.s" jee

[Roja]

Mere khayal se nayi shuruwat karlena chahiye. Pyar ko paa nahi sake toh
us pyar ke liye zindagi waste karne se accha, nayi shuruwat se zindagi
jeena chahiye. Kisi aur ko accept karlena chahiye. Pyar kisi ek wajah
se hame nahi mila toh dukh toh hota hai, but zindagi rukhti nahi.

Gum brother and Lovely_ash just forget the past and cheer up..

[bekarar]

dear gum,
is section me humesha se aapne behtar se behtreen "topics" liye hain (i love to read old post in this section)..aur aaj bhi ek achcha sawal lekar aaye hain aap......
jo bhi aaapne likha true love ke baare me...mai us par na jaa kar seedhe aapke sawal ka jawab dena chahunga.....
bahoot chota sa jawab hai mera aur meri apni niji ray hai...
agar sachcha pyaar dono taraf se hai....to mera ye manna hai ki milna 100% hoga hi...unhe koi haalat juda nahi kar sakte...siway mout ke......lekin mere apne anubhav hain ki sachche pyar ka kai baar sirf naam liya jaata hai..aur haalaton ki duhaai dekar log apna apna raasta pakad lete hain....
khair mai ye manta hun ki agar kisi bhi wajah se aap apne pyaar ko na pa sako to samajh lena ki ya to aapki taraf se ya fir uski taraf se ab bhi sachcha pyaar nahi ho paya hai....aur jab pyaar sachcha hi nahi tha fir kisi aur ko sweekar karne me mere khayal se koi burai nahi..

[bekarar]

ur welcome gum.....
pyaar ke liye sachche hone ka kya sirf ek yahi paimana hai...ki hum kisi aur ko apne jeevan me jagah na den...nahi....aapka pyar sachcha hai to aap...jindagi ke har mod par har mushkil ghadi me uski taraf madad ka haath badha kar bhi wo nibha sakte hain....chahe usne kabhi aapke inhi haathon ko kaatne ki koshish ki ho...ye mere khayal se sachcha pyaar hoga

[natural]

Nice topic gum, but it really surprises me that you asked this question....
I agree with bekarar ji, If love is true from both sides, it never ends in a failure because when you are in love all other things matter a little, for a one sided love, the best way is to feel good that atleast you felt this magical feeling and move ahead in your life. As far as marriage is concerned, you have to marry.
To support my views I have the following reasons....
You have some responsibilities towards your parents too.
Why to waste your life for the one who never loved you.
Who knows; you fall in love with the one you marry.
Time is not all the same, you may need someone to support you in old-age..

[natural]

Listen Kul, First of all You must understand that there's no limit to Love, it's not true that if you had loved someone, you cant' love anyone else.
If you still hope of her coming back, it's good.. but waiting forever is not a good idea.
What I have felt is, in love no mistake is too big to be excused.... I mean if you are deep in love with someone, you just cant' stop loving him/her whatsoever mistake he/she committed..
This is just what I felt.... your ideas may be diff....

[diya786]

Love is a four letter word
which means a world
some people don't understand it
and only a lucky few get it...{NM}

[anaskhan]

never never

[syednaami]

Gum saahib,
Aap ko Roja ji ne achhi salah di hai.
Agar aap inhen padha ho ya kabhi padhen to amal zaroor kariyega.