shadi-shuda yoindians pay attention

[syednaami]

jinhe serious hona nahi aata ho....unke liye yahan likhne pur paabandi kub talak,khulaasa kijiye!

To hum kis liye hain Prateek Mitr... Yeh log bhashan den aur hum aap ke saath thoda SITCOM khelte hain...

[bekarar]

Pooja ji mai ye kahana chahunga ke mai male female ke reaction ki baat nahi kar raha, mai dil ko pahunchane wali chot ki intensity ki baat kar raha hun aur mai nahi manta ki gender ka is par koi farq padata hoga.....

[Prateek Mardia]

Prateek ji,

Apse aise sawal ki asha nahi thi. waise insaan ke gambhir hone ya na hone ki baat nahi kahi gai. Is gambhir vishye ko madhe najar rakhte hue hi likhe jo bhi likhna hai.. extra chit-chat nahi...

Aapki aashaon par khara utarna gusthak ko aaya nahi
maine gehrai tuk naape samandar,pur mani paaya nahi
yeh tark kaisa cheda he shaam se,main gungunaaya nahi
meri jholi he khaali padi,kavita koi laaya nahi!

(fir se maafi deejiyega)
Prateek

[Pooja]

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Bas yeh baat 99.99% sach hai, kuchh bhi I agree with you Pooja jee...
Haan bhale kuchh bhi ho, East men aisa zaroor hota hai, West men shayad aisa nahin wahan to baat hi aur hai jo hum Eastern sada log jhail nahin payenge...

Yahan par divorce rate kam hai, jab ki wahan to taoba... Just added (Nothing else)

Main USA mai bahoot saalo se hu, bahoot kuch dekha hai yaha. East west kuch nahi hai...jahan emotions ki baat hai!!

Kahin per aourat ko rights pata hai, emotional needs ko fulfill karne ke liye places hai, to wo pyar hote hue bhi, kai reasons ko deemag mai rakh kar alag hona behatar samjhati hai.. aor kahin per jahan rights hi nahi pata, koi emotionally sath dene wala nahi.., koi rasta hi nahi hai wahan koi kaya kar sakta hai!!

Again yah poori tarah se ek alag discussion hai...

[bekarar]

aaj agar ab mai kuch likhunga to fir ye discussion aadhyatmik mod le lega.........................

[Pooja]

Pooja ji mai ye kahana chahunga ke mai male female ke reaction ki baat nahi kar raha, mai dil ko pahunchane wali chot ki intensity ki baat kar raha hun aur mai nahi manta ki gender ka is par koi farq padata hoga.....

Chot to chot hai aor dard bhi dard hai. Magar mujhe aisa lagta hai ki same chot per ya dard per ladke aor ladkia alag tarah se react karte hai. Shayad kudrati anubhavo ki wajah se!!

ab dard main Rona dono ko atta hai, dono ko tanha baithna bhi pasand hai to kai baar kisi ke sath ki jaroorat bhi!! ab yah bhawnaaye ek jaise hai!!
Magar emotionally hurt hokar adami jahan ghar se baher ja kar shant hota hai wahin aourat ghar ke ander rahna pasand karti hai. Admi kisi dost ke ghar jayega ya kisi club main, jahan aurat apni saheli ko ghar se he call kar ke sari baat batyegi.. hope app matlab samjh rahe hoge kis tarah se emotions same hote hue bhi dard ek sa feel hota hai magar reaction alag ho jaate hai,.

yah sab likh kar bhi lag raha hai ki shayad main apke asali sawal ke pass nahi pahunchi.. chaliye .. appp mujhe koi ek example de.. shayad apka sawal, usse mujhe aor achi tarah samjh aa sake!!

[Pooja]

aaj agar ab mai kuch likhunga to fir ye discussion aadhyatmik mod le lega.........................

apke dil mai jo hai wo app likhe, koi bhi mord le. Discussion hai yah...jahan tak hoga.. discussion mai sath dene ki koshish karati rahugi..

Such maane to Yoindia per bahoot waqat baad likhna acha lag raha hai.. Thanks for this thread!!

[syednaami]

Main USA mai bahoot saalo se hu, bahoot kuch dekha hai yaha. East west kuch nahi hai...jahan emotions ki baat hai!!

Kahin per aourat ko rights pata hai, emotional needs ko fulfill karne ke liye places hai, to wo pyar hote hue bhi, kai reasons ko deemag mai rakh kar alag hona behatar samjhati hai.. aor kahin per jahan rights hi nahi pata, koi emotionally sath dene wala nahi.., koi rasta hi nahi hai wahan koi kaya kar sakta hai!!

Again yah poori tarah se ek alag discussion hai...

Haan alag hai par jab Emotions par aati hai to yeh baat bhi ek mahatva hai ki East aur West Demographic Studies men yeh paya gaya hai ki emotions bhi cultural values ke saath change hote hain...

USA men aap bhale saalon se hon, par maine inhen bhi study kya hai... aur jahan tak Eastern hai woh bhi wahan thoda West ko accept kar rahe...

[syednaami]

apke dil mai jo hai wo app likhe, koi bhi mord le. Discussion hai yah...jahan tak hoga.. discussion mai sath dene ki koshish karati rahugi..

Such maane to Yoindia per bahoot waqat baad likhna acha lag raha hai.. Thanks for this thread!!

Jee mujhe bhi buhat samay hua aap ki yeh baat sune, aaj achha laga yeh Sentence padh kar... kabhi aapne hamare thread men ek baar aisa Sentence likha hai...
Buhat buhat man ko achha laga, ki Bekarar Bhaya ne yeh vishay chhed kar sabko Bekarar kar diya,,, to yeh kahna adhik uchit hoga mere liye...

Begaani Shaadi men Abdullah diwaana...

[Pooja]

emotions bhi cultural values ke saath change hote hain...

Jin emotions ki Bekarar ji baat kar rahe hai, main un emotions ko madhe najar rakhte hue apne vichar likh rahi hu!!

[syednaami]

Haan par main un Emotion ko Comparatively Sankaarik tulna kar aaage  badna chahta hun... aap apni baat ko kahiye In General.... ya hamen Samjho zara, kyunki yet to wait write with true exprerience, maybe a year. hehehehe...

[bekarar]

Main USA mai bahoot saalo se hu, bahoot kuch dekha hai yaha. East west kuch nahi hai...jahan emotions ki baat hai!!

Kahin per aourat ko rights pata hai, emotional needs ko fulfill karne ke liye places hai, to wo pyar hote hue bhi, kai reasons ko deemag mai rakh kar alag hona behatar samjhati hai.. aor kahin per jahan rights hi nahi pata, koi emotionally sath dene wala nahi.., koi rasta hi nahi hai wahan koi kaya kar sakta hai!!

Again yah poori tarah se ek alag discussion hai...

disussion adhoori rah gai aur mai neend ki aagosh me kho gaya lekin bas abhi uatha hi hun aur fir shuru hogaya.....
chalo ab mai RAMAYAN ki ek ghatna ka zikr karta hun..jisme ek dhobi ke ilzam lagane par bhagwan ram ne sita ji ko van me chod aane ka aadesh diya tha.........
barason tak ise mai bhi "shri ram dwara sita ji par kee gai jyadati" ke tour par hi dekhta samjhta raha.....
jab tak ki maine is ghatna ke baare me "OSHO" ko nahi pada tha...
"OSHO" ek mash-hoor darshnik the.......
ise samjhane ke liye pahle "pyar aur atmiyta" ki us sthiti taq pahunchna jaroori hai jab aap apne saathi ko apne upar itne adhikaar de dete ho ya fir aap apne sathi par itna adhikaar samjhane lagte ho............
tab aapke sathi ke dukh aapke apne hi ho jate hain.

[Pooja]

Bekarar ji,

Maine OSHO ke bare suna hai, magar kabhi dhayan nahi diya. Is weekend us per study karne ki soch rahi hu, so ajj is per apke sath discuss nahi kar sakugi.

jahan tak "pyar aor atmiyta" ki baat hai. yah do different cheese hai. app kisi ek se pyar kar sakte ho magar shayad atmiyat na ho sako. aor yah bahoot kam milta hai ki koi do partner ek doosre ko pyar bhi karte ho aor atmiyata bhi ho!! magar kahin kahin maine yah dekha hai aor jahan yah hai.. wahan partners kuch kar jaaye koi farak nahi pardta. kyun ki atmiyta ka matlab atma ka milan jahan do insaan ek ho jaate hai.. kahin bhi yah mehsoos nahi hota ki usne kiye.. aise lagta hai ki humse kuch galat ho gaya aor isko kaise thik kar sakte hai.. pal pal partner yah sochta hai ki main kaya karu jis se doosra partner acha mehsoos kare.. balki kai baar wo doosre ki galati apne per le leta hai ki shayad maine yah na kiya hota to apse yah nahi hota!! poori tarah se samarpan..
pata nahi main apna point apko clear kar saki ya nahi... abhi bhi pata nahi ki apke sawal ko sahi samjha ke nahi...

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[bekarar]

ohhhhhhhhh......aap bilkul wahi kah rahi hain jo mai aapko kahna chahta tha........
chalo ab mai kya likhun ..... chalo us sawal par aa jate hain maine ye kaha tha in my first post ki aap apne partner ko bahoot pyar karte hain...kai baar aap uski kisi baat ko ignore kar dete ho (wohi jo duniya ke liye choti aur aapke liye badi baat hai)lekin kab taq aur kya ye sirf un logon ke saath hota hai jo shayrana mizaz ke hain...

[Pooja]

kya ye sirf un logon ke saath hota hai jo shayrana mizaz ke hain...

Meri najar mai pyar ka shayrana mizaz ke sath sirf itna sa rishta ho sakta hai ki aise insaan jayada bhwook ho kar rishto ko dekhein. Kyun ki jo log shayr nahi hai wo bhi to dil se apne partner ko pyar karte hai...
ab yah sawal hai ki unki baaton ko kab tak najar andaz kiya ja sakta hai... is vishaye per likhne se pahle mere liye yah jan.na jaroori hai ki kis tarah ki baato ke baare yaha baat ho rahi hai?