Spamming (Emotional Game)

[angel4u]

This is seriously a matter of concern. Here i m seeing that since many days one of the member (will not mention her name, but if she reads it she will definately come to know about whom i am talking) is trying to invite new as well as some of the old members on her own site. This is what is called a real betrayal to YOINDIA. On face this particular person is claiming as the most dedicated FAMILY member, whereas at the same time is breaking this family. I mean what it is proved while inviting the members to their site? how can someone who is here since long time, take the Yoindians  and invite them to the other sites. even i know how they are invited, i dont want to mention it over here. But i would request that member to stop this ridiculous things. Or we really dont need people who just come here to make others emotional n then drag them to their own forum. STOP PLAYING WITH PEOPLE'S EMOTIONS, infact stop playing with your Family member's emotions.

I hope after reading this THE YOINDIANS will realise what is truth and what is false. As such hamesha dekha gaya hai ke koi member kahin bhi jaaye use yoindia jaisa atmosphere, parivar, aur pyaar kahin nahi milta hia. is baat ko wo member se zyada koi achhi tarahse nahi jaanta jo khud ye sab kar rahi hia, kyonke wo bhi baar baar dusri site pe jaake yoindia pe aayi hi hai.....  aur jis site ko promote kiya jaa raha hai yoindia through, shayad uske owners ye bhool jaate hia ke jo kuch sikhe hai yoindia se sikhe hai. Aaj yoindia ki wajahse itni capacity hai unki ke ek forum bana sake, par kya us forum ko yoindia ke jaisa maintain kar sakte hai? I think our iAdmin is the most efficient Administrator i have ever seen. He has made the atmosphere here so friendly and full of attachment that he as such is not worried if people go or come, cuz he knows n he trusts that EAST OF WEST YOINDIA IS THE BEST!!!

Khair bura lagta hai ke wo site bhi us owner ki promote ki jaa rahi hai jisne kabhi yoindia ko nuksaan pahuchane ki kaafi koshish ki thi. aur bahut jamke koshish ki thi, khair us baar bhi unko muh ke bal hi girna pada tha. But this is what i call a REAL BETRAYAL!!! Now Yoindians have to decide what they exactly have to do.

kehte hia na 2 din ki chaandni phir kaali raat, waisa hi hai... Yoindia se badhke sachhe YOINDIAN ke liye liye kuch nahi hia na hi kuch hoga, iske baad bhi agar jis members ko invitation through PMs aate hai aur wo jaana chahe to jaa hi sakte hai. Yoindia loves everyone. chahe koi jaaye ya jaake laut aaye... Yoindia is always to welcome... 

Thats why YOINDIA is YOINDIA... and i think everyone will agree with me here. RIGHT??? 

aur sabse important aur sach baat...

YOINDIA ROCKS !!!  

[Talat]

100% Agree with what you said.....People disappear, people reappear....Sweet talking on posts....and through PMs their real purpose goes on...INVITING INNOCENT MEMBERS TO SOME XYZ SITE !

Also, some old members who could not succeed in hurting Yoindia earlier are now playing games this way !!

I hope the persons concerned get this clear message that they will not succeed in 'emptying' Yoindia of its valuable members !

[angel4u]

Thats true Talat. Those who know the real worth of YOINDIA will stay here forever and always, but i doubt that other members who are invited dont know that that XYZ site is managed by the greated betrayer YOINDIA has ever seen... khair main to yehi kahungi jo real sense mein YOINDIAN hai kabhi nahi jayenge yahan se.... chahe KOI kuch bhi kar le...

[angel4u]

Thanks Kaash for ur beautiful words. yahan mera maqsad logonko wahan jaane se rokna nahi hai, Wo to mujhe bhi yaqeen hai ke kio agar jaata bhi hia to bas thode din mein wapas aa hi jayega. Ye jagah hai hi aisi.. Maqsad sirf waaqif karwana hai, ke log yahan jisko kareeb maante hai, wo unke peeth pichhe kaise gande khel khel chuki hai. I have already mentioned in the subject as (EMOTIONAL GAME). bahut aasan htoa hia kisiko emotionally kisi taraf le jaana, but utna hi mushkil hota hai kisiko real sense mein kisi site se impress karke wahan le jaana......

Just hope that people keep their eyes and ears open to what has happened in past, Better to differentiate foes from friends. jo insaan apne parivaar ke sath aisa kar sakta hai wo aage kuch bhi kar sakta hai. ya to phir dikhawa karta hai ye yoindia uska parivaar hia...

THINK ABOUT IT!!!

[madhuwesh]

I agree with you all Angel ji ,Talat ji,and Kaash ji.
aap sabne sahi kaha,pata nahi chalta kaun dost hai kaun dushman,baatein toh
sab bahut sweet karte hai phir kyun yo ko barbaad karna chahate hai.
mai toh kabhi yo chod ke jaane waali nahi ,bahut dhuk hua ye padh kar.
koi kuch bhi karle jo samajhdaar hai wo jayenge hi nahi yo ko chod kar.

[angel4u]

Kaash ji, aap samajh nahi rahe hai main jo kehna chah rahi hoon, maine ye bilkul bhi nahi kaha hai ke yahan ke members ko kisi dusri site pe nahi jana chahiye, na hi unko zabardasti yahan pe rakhne ki baat kar rahi hoon. bas baat ye hai ke wo member jo apnepan ka dhong karta aaya hai bahut time se, wohi dusro ko invite kar raha hai dusre ki site pe, aur wo uss insaan ki site hai jisne yoindia ko puri tarahse nuksaan pahuchane ki koshish ki thi, bas ye abhi kuch mahino ki hi baat hai. Na hi main members ke decision ko leke kuch keh rahi hoon, haan unka decision hia jaaye aur aa jaye, yoindia always welcomes them.

Aur galti ek baar hoti hai 2 baar hoti hia, baar baar nahi hoti, koi insaan parivaar ko todne ki baar baar koshish kare, hum usko maaf kar denge, aur kya wo is yoindia family ka sadasya banneki qaabiliyat rakhta hai, itna kuch karne ke baad bhi? now i dont consider that member as the part of yoindia family. n no one should think... koi apne hi parivar ke saath itna bada dhokha nahi kar sakta. aap khud sochiye, koi insaan yoindia ko nuksaan pahuchake dusri site open kare, aap yoindia pe ho, to kya dusre members ko wahan jaane ka invitation denge? Nahi, aap kabhi nahi karenge, cuz you are the part of yoindia, family member of yoindia, ab jab wo isnaan aise kar raha hai to uska kya matlab hua? kya use humein apne beech ka ya hamare darmiyaan rakhna chahiye?

Ye galti us member se baar baar hui hia, EMOTIONAL GAME khelke dusre members ko dusri sites pe le jaana, aapne aise PMs nahi dekhe hia par maine bahut dekhe hai. shayad admin ne wo site bhi block list mein daal di ho i m not sure of that. But he can do that.


Sorry agar meri koi baat aapko buri lagi ho, par jo hai dil mein wo keh diya. I just dont think such memebrs deserve to be part of YOINDIA FAMILY, jiske liye bas ye ek zariya hia apni site pe members laaneka... past mein bhi aisa bahut baar ho hi chuka hia...


Lets see wo member ye tamasha kitni had tak karta hai.....

[angel4u]

I agree with you all Angel ji ,Talat ji,and Kaash ji.
aap sabne sahi kaha,pata nahi chalta kaun dost hai kaun dushman,baatein toh
sab bahut sweet karte hai phir kyun yo ko barbaad karna chahate hai.
mai toh kabhi yo chod ke jaane waali nahi ,bahut dhuk hua ye padh kar.
koi kuch bhi karle jo samajhdaar hai wo jayenge hi nahi yo ko chod kar.

Sahi hia madhu. isliye kisi pe bhi bharosa karne se pehle ek baar sochna chahiye, koi shehed ki tarah mitha, ya gulaab ki tarah komal banke bahtu si mithi baatein karta hai, par dil mein kya hai koi nahi jaanta...

Thanks for such nice words Madhu, Aap jaise members ke dedication ki wajahse ye parivar itna khoobsurat hai, aur ye baat bhi hai ke chahe koi kitni bhi koshish kar lein is parivaar ko bikherne ki, ya apne matlab ke liye PARIVAR shabd use karne ki, par aakhir to muh ke bal hi girta hia...

[angel4u]

Kaash ji, aisa ho raha hia ke dusre log yahan aate hai bas members ko apni site pe drag karne ke liye, tahts why i gave the title "EMOTIONAL GAME". maine pehle bhi kaha tha ke yahan baat ye bilkul bhi nahi aati ke dusre members wo site pe jaate hia, mujhe sirf aur sirf is baat se dikkat hai ke yahan ke members nwe members ko influence karte hia apni blog pe jaane ke liye. ye kis type ki feelings hai yoindia ke liye jisko wo parivaar kehne ka dawa karte hia, khair ye to hai bade bade daawe karna aur baat hai aur sahi mein parivaar manna alag hi baat hia.

YOINDIA ke liye harek member zaroori hia, par haan ye baat bhi hia yoindia kisiko rokega nahi kisiko bhi jaane se. cuz the thing over here is YOINDIA respects the member's decisions always. meri baat bas yahan us member ko point out karne ki hai jo yoindia se betrayal kar raha tha. aur phir usi member ko wapas laane ki bhi baat chhid rahi hia. khair i dont question on anything. bus asliyat sabke saamne hoti hi hia, logonko aankhein kholne ki zaroorat hai. thats wat i want to say.

[sunny_bunny]

Hi {Angel},very nice topic dear.My name is Sunny.i really appreciate the love you have for Yo and  you call Yoindia as your family.but can i ask you something.when we live together in a family.and when our younger or elder made any mistake what we do that time...we kicked them out of the house??? 
or we try our level best to make them understand whatever you have done is wrong and if necessary request them not to repeat it again in the near future.i am with Yo from last 5 years i think.i have seen so many people come and go.many people promote their site here and trust me no one bothers.Yoindia give me very good friends.we talk on phone we meet we share our sorrow and happiness.but what am i feeling here...you are targeting some special person whose name you don't wanna tell.this is Yo we are family we don't suppose to backstabbing here.and trust me if you have any problem with anyone PM that person and talk to them in person.and everything will be fine.i hope you understand what i mean.if you don't get me...I'm always around...ask me anytime.till then take a very good care of your self.god bless you.

[angel4u]

If i am targeting any person then it is for a reason. and the reason is YOINDIA. Ya you are absolutely right that people come and spam over here, and no one bothers. but when a person had tried to damage yoindia in past and if his/her site is promoted here then thats not called a mistake, thats called a clear BETRAYAL. and if a family member is so much dedicated then he/she can never do that. have you found any sincere member on yoindia spamming like this? and its not that the particular person was not warned. I think you do not know the things over here. People are not banned like this over here. they are given repeated warnings.

Look, frankly speaking i am not like someone who will be sweet on the face and then stab on your back. I would be very clear, i had problems with this particular person in past, and at that time also reason was YOINDIA. i do not drag my personal issues over here. and by the way if you have read the whole thing, i have never even mentioned of banning the person. This is the rule of YOINDIA. Banning someone is Admin's decision and i dont even want to question or answer that.

about backstabbing i already mentioned i have done whatever is right publically. unlike others, i dont have that SPECIAL QUALITY of being sweet on face and then stabbing at the back. As someone has done with yoindia. Just answer this simple question of mine. agar koi aapke parivaar ko nuksaan pahuchaye, aur phir hamare hi parivaar ka koi sadasya us insaan ko support kare, uski site ko promote kare wo kya hai? i just call that CLEAR BETRAYAL.

I do not care to PM anyone or talk to anyone. I think Admin and other monitors have done that. i did my job and i dont think that i am wrong. See one thing is i love yoindia a lot, and if someone supports the person who has tried to harm yoindia in past then i m very sorry, i cant tolerate that, not in any case. and people here are not so immature that they wont understand whats right and whats wrong. agar koi bhola banke kahe ke mujhe pata hi nahi tha ke is insaan ne yoindia ko nuksaan pahuchane ki koshish ki thi, then usse bada bewakoof is duniya mein koi nahi hai.

i think i have made myself very clear. if its something you want to discuss then you can PM me, anytime....

[iAdmin]

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