A request from New Writer to Yoindia Shayariadab community

[deepika_divya]

I too Agree with Mann And Khwaish  !

Daad Ko Lafzo se se byaan Kiya jana chaiye Animations tho fun ka hissa hai Kisi ko daad dene ka nahi..

Rahi baat Negative Comments ki tho Main yahi Kahungi Ki Har Insaan ka Mann Ak Jaisa Nahi hota,, Koi Kitna pareshan hai Ya Khush Uski kalaam Se Uss Vyakti ka emotion Nahi jana ja sakta, Agar Kavi Ne Kuch galat Bhi likha hai tho PM ke jariye Batana hi lazmi hai ... Otherwise logo ke beech mea ego factor aa jata hai ,Kyunki negetive comments sab pad sakenge aur usse Us wyakti ka Manobal aur gir jaayega... jaisa Ki pehle Dekha gaya hai ..

Isliye Negative Comments PM Mea kaha jaaye yahi sahi hai.. Kaale akshro se Kisi ka mann Ka Mansik stiti ko Pada nahi Ja sakta!!


Rahi baat Rau Ki... Isse Koi fayada nahi ho raha hai iss ke badle Hum Templates use kar sakte hai

Text templates ,Jahan Log Tareef Select kar sakte , Isse Words ke jariye tareef bhi ho jayegi aur Logo ko Likhna nahi padega .. what say ?

[mkv]

Mann, Sarfira, Parwaaz, Khwaish , Nysha ji, Azeem , Hasan Sir, Aur kasak jee ne jo comments diye hai mai unse principally agree hun.
DAAD sirf lafjo me he honi chahiye.
Nysha ji ke RAU pe comment ko bhi mai sahi thahrata hun..isne forum ko koi fayda nahi pahuchayaa..log ise theek se samjh bhee nahi paaye hai..it really doesn't reflect the true picture of shayar's.
Log kah kah kar RAU de rahe hai..MATLAB SAAF HAI..EK HAATH SE LO AUR DUSRE HAATH SE DO. rishte banane ki koshish ki ja rahi hai..accha hai jeene ke liye par shayri aur forum ke liye accha nahi.
RAU ka majaak bana diya hai logo ne, 10 ghante ke andar hi log kai kai members ko ek saath RAU de rahe hai, mujhe nahi pata kaise..PAR YE SACH HAI.
DILO KE BEECH DURIYAN ITNI BADH CHUKI HAI KI BAHUT SE MEMBERS NE AANA BHI CHOD DIYA HAI.
Mai bas itna chahta hun ki poetry ko aap sab mil ke bacha lijiye please. isme na kisi ki haar hai na kisi ki jeet.

[sksaini4]

Ye baat MKV jee kee bilkul sahee hai yahaan par kuchh taishudaa raus ese logon ko regular diye jaa rahe hain jo kuchh post bhee naheen kar rahe hote aap kee post par rau mile baat theek hai par naam ko dekh kar roz rau kar denaa kahaan tak jaayaz hai

[iAdmin]

I want to mention here that Rau is not a scale of  your poetic talent, it can be for anything, for your activity on Yoindia Shayariadab, for your good and constructive comments or can be just because people like you.

[sksaini4]

I agree with you. in early stage i did like this. but later I felt few one  absolutly out ,no reply, no post and getting rau regularly
any way I understand rau some sort of appreciation.and any work or people is nothing without appreciation.what ever may be the form symbolic or written.you dont demand appreciation you work demands.shayar may me new or old it doesnt matter some times new member may show a great creation.so it depends upon your work.however in the beginning every new one must be encouraged.there are no of posts every day and each one wants to be replied.every one has its own means a computer or mobile and their limit.so to appreciate each one is very time consuming.also some members post lot of creation on single day.now tell me if there is a liberty to post any no of creations by same people on a single day;is it justified.in this way what should we do.if a suggestion is given to anybody.he feels.and wants that this should be through pm.I in person have faced this. many  of people did not accept my suggestions.so as i said earlier no way before us to put one or to clapping for such people.In the end I tell you I want to help any body any time by all means I also provide my phone no.I also tell you I reply each one 100%.people may regret me but I never do so.

[Abul Asad]

iAdmin saheb
jin saheb ne ye pm aapko kiyaa hai main unke is jazbe kee qadr kartaa hoon.par mera ab tak kaa sad experience ye rahaa hai ki bamushkil ek yaa do logon ko chhod kar jinhe bhee maine rai dee hai unhone naheen maanee main aapko yaqeen se kahtaa hoon ki kam se kam do yaa teen baar main har ek naye ke saath ye kar chukaa hoon par jab log naheen maante aur naheen sudharnaa chaahte to fir hamaare paas bhee sirf taaliyaan bajaane ke alaawaa kyaa rah jaataa hai.fir bhee ham koshish karte rahte hain in person main sabko reply kartaa hoon pasand aaye yaa n aaye par yahaan to naye log itne naashuqre hain ki kisee ko reply hee naheen karte sirf apnee hee post karte rahte hain.haan jin saheb ne ye aapko pm kiyaa hai vo mujhe pm kare aur apnee post ke baare men poochhe agar main use responce n karoon to kahiyegaa

Main saini sahab ke rai se aur comments se kafi had tak ittefaq rakhta hoon, aur main kaafi arse se nahi aapaya hoon siter par
traveling kar raha tha, magar main jab bhi post kiya replies to
pure honesty ke saath comments post kiye hain.

Abul Asad

[Imdad]

See, there can't be any hard rule. Usually a new member is also newbie in shayri and needs motivation more than an honest negative feedback. And of course we all community members should improve our habits to give honest written feedback in addition to smilys as soon as the number of posts of that member increases.
If a new member is self motivated and really needs honest feedback then he can mention that below the post.
And community members should respect that message.

[janumanu]

aap sabhi ke comments padhy .... aur mujhe bhi ek sawaal ne pareshaan kana shuru kar diyaa ....

ki honest comment kya hote haiN ?

kya padhne wala itni kaabliyat rakhtaa hai ki .. wo doosre ko sahi salah de sake ...

sarahnaa karnaa view dena ... apne thought batanaa ek baat hai... par jab aap doosre ko sudharne ki baat karte hai... to... bat kafi serious ho jaati hai ....

mujhe lagtaa hai ki , jab koe kisi ki islaah kare , to wo b iska khyaal rakhe ki wo kahin galat guide to nahi kar raha hai, haan janboojh kar koe karta to nahi, magar samne wale ko bhi radde-amal( prtikriyaa) ka haq hona chhaiye ... reader ko apni baat nahi thopni chahiye .... ye haq likhne wale ko hai ki wo mane ya na mane ....

lekin maine dekhaa hai ki... kuch log beech mai aakar ispe bahas karne shuru kar dete hain ....

jo sahi nahi hai,,,,


hum sirf suggest kar sakte hai apni kabliyat ya samjh se.. lekin humko ye likhne wale pe thopna nahi chahiye .... ki use man'na hi hai ...
wo mane to theek, na mane to bhi theek ....

poetry mai 50% ghalat sahi hos aktaa hai baaki to apna apna andaaz hai... adaygi hai .............jo sabki zuda ho sakti hai...

mujeh bhi ek gahzal par kafi comment mile lekin mai unpe reply nahi kar pata hun... ab koe taliyon ki image chipkaa de to kya kahun ...

likhne wale aur padhne(comment karne) wale dono ko zimmedar hona chahiye ..!!

[shaukeen]

aap sabhi ke comments padhy .... aur mujhe bhi ek sawaal ne pareshaan kana shuru kar diyaa ....

ki honest comment kya hote haiN ?

kya padhne wala itni kaabliyat rakhtaa hai ki .. wo doosre ko sahi salah de sake ...

sarahnaa karnaa view dena ... apne thought batanaa ek baat hai... par jab aap doosre ko sudharne ki baat karte hai... to... bat kafi serious ho jaati hai ....

mujhe lagtaa hai ki , jab koe kisi ki islaah kare , to wo b iska khyaal rakhe ki wo kahin galat guide to nahi kar raha hai, haan janboojh kar koe karta to nahi, magar samne wale ko bhi radde-amal( prtikriyaa) ka haq hona chhaiye ... reader ko apni baat nahi thopni chahiye .... ye haq likhne wale ko hai ki wo mane ya na mane ....

lekin maine dekhaa hai ki... kuch log beech mai aakar ispe bahas karne shuru kar dete hain ....

jo sahi nahi hai,,,,


hum sirf suggest kar sakte hai apni kabliyat ya samjh se.. lekin humko ye likhne wale pe thopna nahi chahiye .... ki use man'na hi hai ...
wo mane to theek, na mane to bhi theek ....

poetry mai 50% ghalat sahi hos aktaa hai baaki to apna apna andaaz hai... adaygi hai .............jo sabki zuda ho sakti hai...

mujeh bhi ek gahzal par kafi comment mile lekin mai unpe reply nahi kar pata hun... ab koe taliyon ki image chipkaa de to kya kahun ...

likhne wale aur padhne(comment karne) wale dono ko zimmedar hona chahiye ..!!

You are absolutely right.
honest comment ka question bilkul theek hai. sab apne ko ustaad samajhte hai jabki aisa hai nahee. andaaj apna apna hota hai, bilkul theek hai. Taaliyon se comment, haalaki mai bhi aisa karta hun..ye theek nahee. animation se reply, reply na karne ke barabar hai. par logo ko isi me khushi hoti hai to theek.

[ANAAM]

Dear Admin,

                   Earliar some analysis and comments on new poems were being done but some writers didnot like it. they thought someone is trying to criticise them....discourage them....so it stoped.
I would advise that the writer should invite real opinion by clearing asking for it....this may help. At times members are short of time then they only appriciate by clapping....that should be taken as encouragement.  
with regards.......
AnAAm  Jain

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Below I received a PM from a new member of community. I feel it is will be better if I share this community in open and let the community decide.

Do you think he is right , do you think we should do something about it , kindly give your views

[Sajid_Ghayel]

Sabse pehle to yeh tay kar pana itna mushkil hai ke kisey guidance chahiye kisey nahi kaun apni poetry me sudhaar chahta hai kaun nahi chahta hai........jis kism ki shayri at present Yoindia par ho rahi hai......us asal shero shayri se koi talluk nahi hai.......shuru shuru me sab isi tarah ka likhtey hai.......main bhi likhta tha......aur yeh Yoindia hi hai jaha maine apne is shauk ko aur aage badhaya hai.

Ek aisa option method hona chahiye jaha yeh pata chal sakein ke jiski bhi post hai he is ready to accept his mistake if pointed out........yaha ke kaieeeee aisey senior members bhi hai jinhone aaj tak apni shayri me kisi kism ki improvement nahi dikhayee hai.........koi samajik mudda utha kar logho ko bhavuk karna shayri nahi hai........shayri ka asal maqsad yeh hai ke uski basic requirement ko poora kiya jaaye.......aaaj tak chend professional good poet ke alawa kisi ko aaj tak yeh tak nahi pata ke Ghazal kya hai aur uske kya maap dand hai.......jiske jo man me aa raha hai waisi utha pathak shayri kar raha hai......main unka dil dukhana nahi chahta.....par wahi logh agar thodi si mehnat karein to bohat khoobsurat shayri kar saktein hai.......

Rahi baat clap karne ki.....to aaj ki bhag daud waali duniya me kisi ne itna bhi kar diya to bohat hai.......ha agar bina padhein kiya hai ya pasand nahi aane ke bavjood sirf dil rakhne ke liye kiya hai to galat baat hai.

Meri Admin saheb se guzarish hai.......ke ya to jo jaisa chal raha hai chalne dein.....ya phir aisa option banaya jaaye jaha yeh pata chal sakein ke kaunsey kalam par islah di ja sakti hai kaunse par nahi.

Jaha tak mujhe yaad hai ek baar ek teachers group bana tha uska kya hua.......main apni masrufiyaat ki wajah se itna waqt nahi de pata jitna dena chahiye......iske liye mujhe maaf kar dein.

[Sajid_Ghayel]

aap sabhi ke comments padhy .... aur mujhe bhi ek sawaal ne pareshaan kana shuru kar diyaa ....

ki honest comment kya hote haiN ?

kya padhne wala itni kaabliyat rakhtaa hai ki .. wo doosre ko sahi salah de sake ...

sarahnaa karnaa view dena ... apne thought batanaa ek baat hai... par jab aap doosre ko sudharne ki baat karte hai... to... bat kafi serious ho jaati hai ....

mujhe lagtaa hai ki , jab koe kisi ki islaah kare , to wo b iska khyaal rakhe ki wo kahin galat guide to nahi kar raha hai, haan janboojh kar koe karta to nahi, magar samne wale ko bhi radde-amal( prtikriyaa) ka haq hona chhaiye ... reader ko apni baat nahi thopni chahiye .... ye haq likhne wale ko hai ki wo mane ya na mane ....

lekin maine dekhaa hai ki... kuch log beech mai aakar ispe bahas karne shuru kar dete hain ....

jo sahi nahi hai,,,,


hum sirf suggest kar sakte hai apni kabliyat ya samjh se.. lekin humko ye likhne wale pe thopna nahi chahiye .... ki use man'na hi hai ...
wo mane to theek, na mane to bhi theek ....

poetry mai 50% ghalat sahi hos aktaa hai baaki to apna apna andaaz hai... adaygi hai .............jo sabki zuda ho sakti hai...

mujeh bhi ek gahzal par kafi comment mile lekin mai unpe reply nahi kar pata hun... ab koe taliyon ki image chipkaa de to kya kahun ...

likhne wale aur padhne(comment karne) wale dono ko zimmedar hona chahiye ..!!

Hahahahahaha mere bhai tumhari baatein hamesha chaar direction me q jaati hai........yeh bhi kehte ho woh bhi kehte ho.....aisa bhi karo waisa bhi karo.......mamla sulajhne ke bajaaye aur ulajh jaata hai..........main to ek word nahi samajh nahi paya ke aakhir tum kehna kya chah rahey ho........waise bhi bohat din huye tumse uljhe........was missing u.....

[pritam tripathi]

hi admin ji
First of all I am very much thankful to you because you give us a platform to show our feelings via poetry and thoughts.
It is a very great journey with yoindia we can learn a lot from
here.We are here not for our passion or hobbies ,we are here because we want to be here.
We are like a family someones are new one and others are old members so i requested to the old members to forgive the mistakes of new members and suggest them for the right way.
It is really nice feeling to being here whenever i got frustrated then i came here and feel the freshness of the new thoughts and some motivating thoughts which gives me energy to fight with bad
At last I only want mention the name of those members who inspired me a lot even though some of them don't know about me but they inspires me like mkv ji, saini ji ,kasak ji ,satish shukla ji , f.h sidiqui ji sarfira ji , manoj ji sarfira ji and hriday ji .
They always motivated me to write good thoughts.I am really thankful to them.

@admin :As you are the owner of this site, it increases your responsibilities so i only need to mention here, can u update the chat facility (global chat facility not personal chat facility)? so that we can share views and thoughts.
As i am a software developer so i can understand this is not so much easy task to do because they will have to done the extra effort for this.
If this facility is here, according to me it seems very good for us.
If you are interested then you can discuss with us.
Let's check what is the opinion of other members
                                                   

regards
pritam tripathi

[iAdmin]

Definitely we can do a lot on Yoindia Shayariadab but it is currently facing monetary issues. But that doesn't mean we will not work on it, if we need any assistance, will definitely ask for it.

[Quateel Ahmad]

Bhai, there many ways to sort this monetary problem out....why not subsidiarise Shayariadab and have an IPO within the community here. Offer shares to members. Then run a fee-based value added service. This possibly calls for new site design, that the IPO amount can take care of. The annual general meeting can be in the form of a mushaira!!!. But its only a suggestion.